I fail in 12th std. so my mom &dad donot talk properly with me. they say that i have make them ashame . our relative even they dont come to our house.i had given my paper very nicely but still.
in my life i try get success but i am not. they all scold for my little mistake. i am very bored with it .i don't feel to live.
2006-06-20 01:23:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Keep your chin up! Your shame sounds like it is culturally induced. Time to move out and move on!
Remember the saying - whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger. How you handle this will reveal your strength of character, which is most likely more important than a grade you got.
If they can't accept that you did the best you could, then they don't need to be bothered any more with your company. Get out, and get going! find somewhere else to go and start building a better life for yourself. Self pity is futile. Move on!
2006-06-20 01:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by LEMME ANSWER THAT! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have a truly beautiful mind so you are a lucky girl.
You're able to perceive the way your loved ones feel about you at the moment which shows you're very perceptive, humble and do care about how others feel. These attributes are good.
Failing at the 12th std. does not mean failure in life. They're many individuals that failed 12th grade several times but are successful and great in the world today. Mom and Dad scold because they love you, they're only trying to encourage you dear.
That you can communicate your feelings and disposition evoking the right depths of emotion show's you're a budding poet. Only those who persevere and are determined to live make a success of their lives.
Indulge more in those things you do so well, try to help others solve their problems and you'll see you're not unlucky but truly a lucky girl.
2006-06-20 09:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by prestyo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are desperate at that moment, but it's only a bad period of your life. Don't give up! You are unique! You have so many talents but you must find them ( if you don't know them).
You must be a teen (or near). In your age a small mistake looks too big.
I have two daughters (twins). The second, is a very good student, and she makes me proud all the time. The first one is like you, she's failed in her exams (just yesterday). She always try to be good but ... I don't know, why it happens.
I always say that we cannot do (all of us) all the things right. We must try to do our best and when we fail , we must try harder and harder.
So, try your best, be patient with your parents (they want your success because they love you, don't forget that when they scold you), develop your skills/talents and
don't give up, don't leave a mistake makes you unhappy
think you are a beautiful person full of talents and you are unique!
Good Luck
2006-06-20 08:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry you are going through this, i dont agree with your family treating you this way , you really dont deserve it, because every parent should love their children unconditionally. You must not loose faith, "if at first you dont succeed pick yourself up and try again, you have youth on your side, and life will get better with time, have tried telling them how you feel, i'm sure they would be upset to know you feel this way about your life, you just cant give up now there is help out there, maybe you can speak to a friend or even a teacher/tutor about this. Good luck.
2006-06-20 08:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey this is not the reason u dont feel to live........
its high time that you should make your parents understand that this is not the last thing in life......
today you have many oppurtunities in life to prove yourself.....
be bold enough to take the chalange and then prove to everyone that you are not that bad as they think of you....
Just you need to do now is that you have to talk to your parents face to face regarding what has happened and also that you are not at fault as you did your best for the exams......
tell them that you would like to try for the same once more and then this time put in more efforts than this time and get good marks.....
choose the best carrier option for your self in which you find yourseelf really comfortable in and then go ahead with it.......
2006-06-20 08:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by Kunal Patel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear,
don't give up, life is having too much love for you, and that all you will get soon, you are the most loving angel of the god, he is just taking test of your passions, don't let him down, your parents also loves you a lot, but they have some dreams for you, they wish to see you top to all, that's why they are sad now, but soon they will be more loving to you ,so just love to your parents more and keep try to make your exams , and give them cheer with your result. OK
i am always there for you , as your friend.....
see you
2006-06-20 08:38:19 · answer #6 · answered by ajit s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no need to be depressed these are very small things of life which facilitate our strength for further tests in life.take your mistakes as a challenge.i'm sure you will be the best in your next exams
2006-06-20 08:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by florescent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 12 th std is not the only thing n life , don't worry every thing will become o/k
2006-06-20 08:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by hardware_guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, chin up , shed no more tears , smiling is ur gift to the world remember living ur life get easier with time. problem comes and goes. just remember to live the way u want to live. and be glad that u failed, its the only way we learn from our mistakes. by fail. remember smile :)
2006-06-20 09:42:48 · answer #9 · answered by tima-infokill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO one is a failure. You must be patient and believe in yourself, God does not create mistakes. I wish you every success. If you are positive then positive things will happen.
Peace to you.
2006-06-20 08:39:26 · answer #10 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋