My boyfriend and I have been together almost three years. And for the most part we talk to each other pretty well about most things. Except when it comes to sex. I'm not sure if he gets embarassed and it looks like he's mad, or if it's just that he doesn't want to talk about it.
When our quality of sex goes down the poop shoot and I ask about it, why would he get mad at me. And then get mad at me for even saying it, when he asked me what was wrong?
Am I nuts?
2006-06-20 00:47:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
some guys take it as an insult to them and get defensive (acting mad) instead of seeing the problem and remedying it (making suggestions). i would just try to talk to him and tell him you want to talk about it to help your relationship not hurt it. At least you're honest and towards the first step of making it better for the both of you.
2006-06-20 00:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he isn't "comfortable" talking about sex. Maybe he was raised that way - that's a real good possibility. Tell him you need to discuss it with him so you can work on the relationship rather than avoiding the issues because that won't get you anywhere. Tell him if there's anyone he can discuss sex with, it is his partner and that it is very important.
2006-06-20 07:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend you tell me one relationship that isnt crazy its enevitable however the male species is well how do I say insecure about such things as sexual performance they are really like little children they think if you ask these questions they aren`t getting the job done and it makes them insecure so you see they really are`nt as tuff as they lead on to be.Try taking this into exception before you ask again and you will learn to word it differently with our little men.
2006-06-20 08:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just have a difficult time talking about sex.
2006-06-20 08:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you need to talk about it or it never gets better.try asking him what he likes the most ,what you can do for him, then slip him a hint on what you like.
2006-06-20 07:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by polockpete40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, no drama, no fun. Too much drama, lots of trips to mama's. Careful to find the right mix. True love will have its ups and downs but, you will know it and it will glow!!!!!!!
2006-06-20 07:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by Mountain Dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you noticed that your boyfriend was having some problems, and you were just trying to help him.You can't do much, if he is not communicating.
2006-06-20 07:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. he just have an insecurity complex he needs some serious talking about it with you. I love your name by the way.
2006-06-20 07:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they are meant for good things the relationship its self is not suppose to be scary . maybe what the person is doing is.
2006-06-20 07:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by Cassandra T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfreind is being an hypocret how can be shy of you when he knows how to it. i wonder whether you make sounds or he does pls sit him down and talk with him abt this childish behavour of his.......
2006-06-20 07:53:36 · answer #10 · answered by Prisca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋