2006-06-20 00:14:55 · 15 answers · asked by crystal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't know what most guys are looking for, but for me, it was someone that would understand me and accept me for who I am without wanting to change me. This is me and who I am, if you love me, then be with me, if not, then don't be with me. That is the problem with most couples, they fall in love with an idea, but their partner doesn't have those qualities so they think they will be able to change and mold them into that perfect image.
I also looked for someone that was easy on the eyes. Don't lie to yourselves and say love is blind... it's not, unless you are really physically blind. If someone is so good in heart and nature, but so repugnant ugly, then it's not going to work either because the physical will play a factor in the long run.
I looked for someone that I knew would be compatible with my parents and not clash with them. I couldn't stand drama and family friction. I had seen too much of that already and didn't need it in my relationship.
Lastly, I looked for someone that I thought would make a good parent along with me. Someone to give me loving children and be able to care for them.
In 1993, I found this person and in 2000 I married her.
2006-06-20 00:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it differs from a man to the other. Some men want great looks, other are looking for a compatible personality, some want her to be a career oriented woman, while others want a stay at home mum!!!
Each stage has a certain description for the perfect woman, it really depends on how old the guy is, but i would assume that a very general description for the perfect woman is:
- Good looking
- Sexy
- Funny
- Friendly
- Understanding & supportive
- Willing to make sacrifices for the sake of the relationship
2006-06-20 07:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by fozio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am from India n can talk about what Indian men basically look in a woman.
1. A woman should be of a good nature.That means she shud be reasonable in her thinking.
2. Should be adjustable to certain circumstances(so shud the man).
3. Shud be honest n caring to her man(do this if you really care for the chap,otherwise look for such a man).
4.Remember beauty only counts when you are sincere,honest and caring.If you are not then beauty will not help.I wud prefer a bad looking female to a cunning self-centered and materialistic female.
5. Remember money is important only upto a certain point after that it's the person that counts.
The above are the points I can think of at the moment.
Hope these help you. God bless you. Bye.
2006-06-20 07:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by Joginder S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfect woman? There is not such thing. However my wife is what i want and here are come of he qualities
attractive and fun
full of life
great talker and listener---- Good at communication
submissive and loving and respects and honors me and my wishes
likes to be intimate
honest and truthful and does not keep secrets from me
fiesty which is one of the things i love about her
Good mom
romantic
does things with me that i like to do and she loves just to spend time with me.
She uplifts me when i am down and treats me the way she wants me to treat her.
She is faitful and devoted.
Hard worker
Christian and puts God first in her life and in the center of our marriage.
She is a great helpmate and loves to help others too.
http://www.marriagetoday.org
2006-06-20 11:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by Fast Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no such guidelines for a man in looking for a perfect woman
it's on our feelings, the acceptance of imperfections of a woman
2006-06-20 07:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by vinzyke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The perfect woman doesn't try to convince me she is something she isn't. She is sure enough of her worth to say, "take it as is or leave it".
2006-06-20 07:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by cats_waves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a woman can be perfect and beautiful but the behavour is not good youcan find a ugly one but the character is good so their is alot of things in human being but only god is perfect???
2006-06-20 07:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by mima t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attitude
2006-06-20 07:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who wants a perfect women. that would be boring and I'm sure not perfect. I want a lady who who is passionate like Italian women thy are so sexy one day I will find one
2006-06-20 08:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tender loving care.
2006-06-20 07:23:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋