Hi, Since I belong 2 India, as per our culture we r not allowed to have sex till we r married. Our parent keeps reminding us not to indulge in any incidence which may affect their so called reputation. So since my early teenage days, I only aimed to excel in studies/career. In my family, we can't think of love-marriage (although some of my cousins were rebel enough to do that) so I never tried to get involved with any girl just for Physical relation nor did my conscience allowed me to think of prostitutes. I am 28 now & well settled in my job so my parent are looking forward for my marriage. I just wanna know if it is OK for any boy to remain virgin till 28 (I do masturbate regularly). Have heard from somewhere that between 18-28 is the best time to enjoy sex & after it is fun but not as much as you feel in your early days. HAVE I LOST MY GOLDEN DAYS?? I will be getting married by late this year but I am afraid if I (or we) will ever enjoy the feeling which is a best gift to humankind?
2006-06-19 22:59:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It is very much OK. You are a rare species and you should be proud of it. And dear you haven't lost your golden days , They will start as soon as you get married. Or as soon as your honey moon starts. And those prostitutes would have left you with all kinds of deceases. I hope your soon to be wife knows how lucky she is. Just hang in there, you ll see what i mean...
2006-06-20 00:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by lovinlife 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah, youll enjoy the feeling. I dont think you have lost your 'golden days' at all, 29 is hardly different from 28. The whole being virgin thing, its ok, most girls dont like to marry guys who have been out with a large amount of whores/sluts, or just alot of easy girls. The only problem i see, is that maybe your fiance might wish you to know what you are doing somewhat. Anyway, you never need to follow society's norms (especially if you come from a different culture), so not having sex yet is fine.
2006-06-19 23:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's great that you are still a virgin and you are waiting until marriage. I'm 17 and I already lost my virginity and my religion it's a sin to have sex before you are married. Of course it is fun to have sex and don't worry about losing your golden days. Sex feels good no matter what age. as long as you and your future wife get turned on then you have lots of days ahead of you. Don't worry sex will be great!When you are ready for sex thats the best sex!!!
2006-06-20 02:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by shasha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great story. Ur fine. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 28. And there is nothing wrong with masturbation or thinking of sex. But since u've masturbated i don't think u'll ever loose anything u know what an orgasm feels like so nothing's lost.
2006-06-20 03:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by Pumkin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We have the same culture here in Philippines. We're also not allowed to have sex until we get married. BUT because of some influences... people here tend to forget our culture. Well... I can't see anything wrong with that.
2006-06-20 00:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by CaRoLiNe-GLeN 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's okay to be a virgin at your age. And no, you haven't lost your golden days...much more ahead.
Be blessed and congratulations on your upcoming marriage.
2006-06-20 03:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by Decent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you waited a long time but it is what you make of it, you may not have a child unless your wife is younger becuse as you age her body is less able to bear a child
2006-06-20 02:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by marishka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, it`s ok! And don`t worry - I`m 29 and I can tell you that sex is even better after 28...
2006-06-20 00:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by Carla 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is ok to be a virgin because your saving your self for the right person.And make sure you are tested for STDs etc..
2006-06-20 02:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by Beaute' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your culture...there is nothing more important than that. Besides, if the girl understands the culture, there shouldnt be any problem!
2006-06-20 08:42:21 · answer #10 · answered by addictive personality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋