lovers come and go but friends are for ever. if you cheat on a lover..thats the end but if you cheat on a friend ..thats just the beginning.you can have a thousand friends but only one lover.a friend can mend a broken heart but a lover breaks the heart in the first place.
2006-06-19 22:48:48
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answer #1
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answered by atahsina 5
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Difference Between Friends And Lovers
2017-01-13 05:07:01
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answered by ? 4
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You can have many friends but you can have only one as a lover. If you have more than one as lover then you are not a true lover and your love doesnot qualify under the strict definition of love.
Yes of course There are different types of love. The love of a child to mother or vice versa. The true love of RADHA to LORD KRISHNA That way the lovers are different.
Also between many of your friends there may be lovers too, that is one of your male friend may love one of your lady friend and there may be many such loving couple like friends.
2006-06-19 23:03:43
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answered by THATHA75 6
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Friends are friends if you ever have sex with a friend.. the friendship is changed forever usually for the worst.
Lovers are sexual parteners often times in an exclusive relationship however the commitment to a Lover falls belowe the commitment to a "significant other"
The 3rd catagory is " friends with benifits" For example, in my early thirties two of my ex-girl friends got together and started bad muthing me saying I was emotionally unavailable. The end result was i had more dates then before or sense. Women were calling me up and asking me out or over for dinner. Here is why. The nature of the relationship is sexual. I always made it a point when I was flirting with a woman to ask if they had heard about my reputation whick I modified to be "I'm a great date but emotionally unavailable"
It appeals to women who are going thru a divorce and don't need the grief with thier soon to be ex, to ladies who are divorced and want to maintsin stabliety with ther kids by avoiding having boyfriends coming in and out of their kids lives and I had a "friend with benifits" relationship with a lady in dental school who was committed to her education and didn't have time for a social life much less a boyfriend.
In all these cases these ladies had committments greater than a boyfriend/girlfirend relationship; be it a previous relationship, thier children or thier education. However, that didn't mean that they didn't want to go out dinner or quit having sex. They just didn't want to put up with a man asking them to give more than they were either willing or abe to give and didn't want the pressure and headaches of a lover who was asking them to give of themselves more than they were willing to commit.
outwardly we were friends but the sex remained discreet. When we went out we went as freinds, i never tried to hold thier hand in public, never expessed jeliousy if they had a date with someone else and always down played the anount of sex i was having with others which was standard operation proceedure since discection and respect for my other parteners established this protical.
I will make a point that it is discreet sex not sneaky sex. Friend with benefits is discreet sex between two unattached indivuals . However it should not be construded or confused with "having an affair " which is sneaky sex and hurtful and damaging to all parties comncerned.
Really, most of these women came in and out of my life.
oops the spell check is having problems....I'm going with what i have with out even proofing it.
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2006-06-20 01:25:08
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answered by quarterton2001 3
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Friendship doesn't commit while lovers are the opposite..In friends you dont need to be intimate to show your interest with the person..
2006-06-19 22:47:50
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answered by Renster 1
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Friends do not have sex with each other. Lovers... that's what they are, share love.
2006-06-19 22:50:29
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answered by 4mom 4
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Friends are friends.. lover are people you have sex with
2006-06-19 22:45:14
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answered by melissa 6
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One day Love and Friendship met,
Love asked: “Why do You exist if I already exist?”
Friendship replied: “To put a smile where you leave tears”
2006-06-19 22:49:24
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answered by ddivvi 3
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love is when you love someone and you do not know why, just know that you can not wait to be with him, to see. you can not be angry, he does not have flaws, it is perfect for you. everything you do with it is very beautiful. makes you happy. Prepare to do about it, to make you happy, it is not difficult, rather enjoy it.
2016-01-16 02:00:59
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answered by Anonymous
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