im Chris im 15...and i seriously feel dead and dull i mean before i was cutting and it helped but yah it got worse and i tryed suicide then like i went back to cutting and before it heloed now it dosent i jus nothn has got better and every girl i love finds the person shell always be with and all i can get is girls im not interested in and all my friends have pretty much abandoned me i jus dun no what i can do to make me feel like i have a reason to live....
2006-06-19 20:43:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First, get help. You should not be feeling so hopeless. You might need medication to help. Please tell a parent or someone to get you help.
Second, what about finding something to make your time useful. Sometimes by helping others, we help ourselves even more. Volunteering is a wonderful experience. Is there a homeless shelter in your area? If not you could go to a nursing home and play checkers with someone who doesnt' have visitors. Go to a children's ward at a hospital and read to patients. Contact the red cross in your area and ask them what things you could volunteer to do.
Third, you do have a reason to be alive. You might not know what it is right this moment, but you have many years ahead of you to find out what it is. Good luck, please get help!
2006-06-19 20:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu're intense and deeply emotional. I feel you bro. Same case here before. You're looking for something sublime that can be your purpose or reason for living, something that can give that vigour in your life, so most of the time you end up psychologizing stuffs like how come those girls behave like they did and how come you feel so empty like there's a deep deep void in there inside you, and most of these stuffs are actually not true you just made them up and after a while you realized that your previous realization was wrong and you realize something else, which you will realize some other time again in the future that its wrong, and so on and so forth and and the whole thing is a " healthily tiresome drama" according to a friend.
What i can tell you, brother, is that life has no meaning and it has no purpose. So stop searching for it. But it doesnt mean that you cant be happy. You should try to stop being such an anal person, and just take the present for the granted. Whatever comes in your way, take advantage. Take those girls that you're not interested in for granted. You will never know what you might find. Those wounds that you cut in yourself will heal anyway and a few years later, no one even knows you do them unless you tell them but it wouldnt be as interesting. So why bother? It defeats the point of cutting yourself if you cant show others. And if you really wanted to commit suicide, you would have done it effectively by now. So just shows you didnt really wanna die.
Take this advice: look for sublimety in the small things. Stop looking for the great, golden meaning of life. It doesnt exist. Our bodies are biological machines. "Life" is only a more beautiful term for "function". They the same nevertheless. Take that for granted. Be a Hedonist. Be a sex-addict. Be the most successful person in the world. Be a priest. It doesnt matter. Whatever floats your boat. Dont search for meaning in these stuffs. They're just for momentary pleasure, while you still live.
Love + peace. Enjoy ;)
2006-06-19 21:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a reason to live. Its you. You are the most important being in your life. You have the ability to love and feel pain when you're hurt. I don't know you or everything that is going on but trust me, no girl or friend is ever worth your life. You have just begun to experience what the world has to offer and you are just beginning to show the world what you have to offer. I used to cut my self when I was younger, because the physical pain was a lot easier to deal with than the mental or emotional, but when the physical was over, the mental and emotional were still there. So all it was was a vicious cycle. I finally decided that I had to stop it myself. I told my mom what I was doing. And with the help of my mom and myself I learned to deal with the mental and emotional issues. it wasnt easy and still have set backs but I want to live and so should you. please, see that you are worth more than any thing to many people. If you would like to, you can always email me and i will be there for you.
2006-06-19 20:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by lvmykds06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break your routine. Stop getting caught up in the same circle of crap every day that all blurs together by the end of the week. Look at your choices in love and decide whether or not you really don't care for the girls that are interested in you or if you are just punishing yourself that way. Life does not just happen to you. Look around.. find the things that need to be changed and change them. You have to change them.. no one is going to wave a magic wand for you and do it.
2006-06-19 20:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by claymore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life isn't meant to be like this for you. you know, Jesus died so that you could have life and life in abundance. this might sound corny to you but its the most truth you will ever hear in your life or on yahoo!answers. Jesus wants you to have a full, complete and happy life, if you will ask Him to come into your heart and Be the Lord of your life. and its so easy, you just say "Jesus i believe you are the Son of God and that you died on the cross for my sins. i believe that you rose again on the third day and i ask you to be Lord of my life." life isn't going to suddenly become perfect but God is faithful to you, more than your parents or friends will ever be. and God is bigger than anything you can ever imagine yet He loves you just as you are. God doesn't condemn you for what you have done in the past but He does want you to live a better and fuller life in the future. And if yoiu want a reason to live ask God, because He created you and knows everything about you. but He only works at your invitation, He won't force himself into your life. my heart goes out to you Chris and if ever you want to chat e-mail me on : wimbieg@yahoo.co.uk
That e-mail is just for Chris, by the way!!!
2006-06-19 21:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by wimbieg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please seek mental help. You have a chemical disorder and it will only worsen if you do not get help. If you like feeling sorry for yourself, stay as you are. If you want to spend the rest of your life content, find help today.
2006-06-19 20:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your medicine could be the problem. Some depression medicine in the past has made me feel dead or numb. You should get a new prescription if you can. I just live without the medicine.
2016-05-20 04:17:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start liking yourself by giving yourself presents such as new clothes , a nice car. spend money on you and no one else. be good to yourself and forget about everyone else. be selfish, you deserve it.
2006-06-19 20:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you're right.
there's no point in following the advice so just keep asking your points away.
2006-06-20 00:01:08 · answer #9 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋