Is something wrong if I've never had an orgasm by intercourse?

Question

This is tough to talk about .I even asked my ob/gyn but he was no help.I'm just wondering is it possible that I could have some kind of physical problem.For example:not enough nerve endings?I am
20 and have had enough partners to know that it's not the guy.It's
me!I have had clitoral orgasms by masturbation and oral sex but
I am desperate and I want to know what it's like to experience an
orgasm by just vaginal intercourse.This is a very serious subject
for me so please only give serious answers.

I have even had a child already and I feel
like I'm missing out on something that I
deserve.

Answer 1

actually ,most women cannot acheive orgasm by intercourse alone! this is totally normal. Try using a vibrator before and during sex to stimulate your clitoris during intercourse. The nerves from that clitoris actually run through and this is where the mysterious G-spot comes from. It is just an extension of these nerves. most women's nerves terminate too soon for her to have a intravaginal orgasm. So stimulate those puppies externally! Hope this works for you!

Answer 2

Really you are missing something which are enjoyable in life. During the sexual intercourse the erectile tissues around the vaginal orifice, become engorged and vaginal orifice becomes more patulous. There is a discharge of mucus from the Bartholin's glands which acts as lubricant. The female orgasm is induced by stimulation of clitoris partly during penetration of the penis,and partly as the result of the clitoris being rhythmically pressed against the male after penetration. The importance of extra genital areas of sexual stimulation also should not be forgotten. These erogenic area vary with the individual and their susceptibility to stimulation is equally variable , but their aggregate response is cumulative and plays the vital part in the ultimate achievement of an orgasm. Also the uterus and fallopian tubes also undergo rhythmic contraction and also the pelvic floor. The female orgasm is not essential for conception. The orgasm is more of psychological and not physical. In short the a great deal depends on your attitude of mind and not a little on the handling of the situation by your partner. Wishing you good luck!

Answer 3

That is perfectly normal.

Try sex from the back (no I am not saying anal, I mean the male behind you and vaginal intercourse) The G-Spot can be reached better from that position. The female G-spot is extremely hidden and often not it during any kind of sex and females constantly need to be stimulated for that orgasm.

But try different positions.

Answer 4

I don't think there's anything wrong with you. My experience has been similar. I have read about it, and it seems that basically, you just aren't getting enough stimulation from the man. You aren't excited enough. My suggestion is to give up sex until you find a partner that you are so radically in love with that just being near him excites you. What I mean is, I don't think you are really madly in love with your partners to the point that you are getting enough excitement from sex. Well, hey, what do I know? It's my theory.

Answer 5

i belong to a BDSM club and they are very sexually diverse. I helped this woman once, she was having another woman push her hand into her V.
It was done very very slowly and the person doing it has to know what they are doing. It requires some knowledge.
Anyway, when the girl got her hand into the other girls V, she made a fist and that expanded the womans V so much that she had 6 orgasms.

just keep an open mind.

tom

Answer 6

Many women experience this. Have you tried different positions as this sometimes helps?

Good luck with the "serious answers only" request.

Answer 7

Its not a physical problem its more of a psicological problem maybe you just dont get enough smina i the intercourse or you just dont get in the mood deeply enough t o actually get an orgasm.But trust me its not physical its psicological its all in your head.

Answer 8

Its the dudes you are with and your probably dont have enough experience.