We're staying in a Camp where we cannot see girls 24/7. Majority of us has a contract of 2 years. This country has so many restrictions. We are all males in our Camp, and we are 2 in one room. I witnessed several times of my roommate having masturbation in my presence. Several times also he invited to do it together, told just for fun, but I refused. I'm not comfortable. Is it normal to masturbate together or have some sex together? Is there any tendency to have sex with him where we cannot have the chance to have sex with girls because it's very difficult because of some restrictions. Please comment on this.
2006-06-19 20:21:17 · 13 answers · asked by friendlyGuy 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
it's call situation homosexuality. Like prison inmates where there are limited outlet for sex with the opposite sex, many engage in sex with each other out of necessity and survival. If u are not comfortable and able to refrain from participating, that's just fine. For others they need to release themselves to keep thier sanity. Once you are out of that situation you will be back to normal. It does not turn you into a gay person. Similarly many teenagers experiment with each other before moving on to the opposite sex.
2006-06-20 01:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's understandable to ask if it's "normal" but it's useless. What constitutes "normal" varies widely from person to person. On one hand you are curious about sharing what could be a satisfying and pleasurable experience with your roommate. On the other, you are afraid of stepping beyond the confines of religious and cultural mandates and maybe a little worried about negative repercussions should the word get out. You need to gauge your own comfort level. Forget the terms "straight" and "gay" - there are MANY "straight" men who explore their sexuality with other men, whether due to the lack of female partners or simply because they choose to experience both sides. The fact that you are contemplating this carefully and asking for opinions says that you want to make an informed decision. Know that you are doing so, and be at peace with whatever you do.
2006-06-19 23:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Nobody in particular 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 04:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by sokin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to keep your head together on this situation because you'll only be there two years and you won't enjoy looking back on a time when you did something you'll regret for the rest of your life. Right now a good thing to do would be to put in as much time as you can reading the Bible or other similar materials.
2006-06-19 20:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make you gay, if that's what you're thinking. Do what's comfortable for you. Back in the day, ship's fleets had 'cabin boys'. The boys were young, and feminine looking in a way; the sailors would often have sex with them. Men in prison often have sex with other males, because of the unavailability of females and the natural sex drive.
2006-06-19 20:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by spookykid313 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen dear, its clear wit ur idea that u r afraid of being called as a "GAY", need not worry dear, c u hv told us that there u cant find any girl, so, in that case u cant live ur life witout hving sex, so i wud like to advise u to 4 for it, n hey there's is nothing to musturbate in front of other guy, but b careful, oral sex is all rite, but if u want to go for intercourse then plz go for safe sex, always use condoms, b'coz there is a lot of chances of STD (sexually tansmitted disease) if the sex is done between 2 guys. so go for it n b practical, n hv a wonderful life witout being called a "GAY".
raaaaaz
2006-06-19 21:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I would love to live in Saudi Arabia.
2006-06-19 20:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by does not exist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, go for it. As long as he isn't joking... lol, in which case just tell him you were joking. I am sure you two could keep it secret, right? Unless you were caught, then you're screwed... In every possible way.
2006-06-19 20:32:23 · answer #8 · answered by Soelk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but ewwww as if to straight males masturbate together just sounds wrong !!! but if it turns you on why not!!! have fun
2006-06-19 22:30:37 · answer #9 · answered by bellitarose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what u feel , no probel when u masturbate before some one
2006-06-19 20:29:02 · answer #10 · answered by Rahman Sheik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋