now he realizes his mistake but he cannot let none of them go.now what should he do?please it is serious..i want to help my friend.thank u.
2006-06-19 19:55:24 · 31 answers · asked by mahdeynet 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Flip a coin. heads he goes with one girl. Tails he goes with the other. only fair way to do it.
2006-06-29 17:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if both the girls know that he likes both of them if yes that makes the issue a bit easy
If not call them both and sit in a place tell your friend about the situation( Here one advantage is also there if any one of the female gets violent or started behaving different he can choose the other) and tell them to help him, make them in such a way he should be able to express his feelings down to his heart.
If they are agreed to get married to each other that means with both of them uder law it is possible( there are lot of people who have two wives i doesnt mean that he should be in trouble)
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2006-06-19 20:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by vankayalarakesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soooo... your friend "loves" both of them very much? I guess your friend should look a little bit deeper into the definition of love... as I don't believe a relationship built from lies will result in love... maybe greed, selfishness, lust... ect... but not love. If your friend would like to clear his concience.. I say let them both go and find someone who will really love them. And make better decisions the next time around... because eventually it would come out.... and women DO NOT forget.. and though they say they forgive... it is always there burning a hole in their stomach.
2006-07-03 21:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by Brooklyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is incredibly ironic.i was in this situation, except i was one of the girls.ok there is no way to avoid hurting one of these girls.and its no fair to them for your friend to keep them both hanging like that.they both probably really want to know when he is gonna choose a girl and who it will be.try having your friend make a list of possible positive and negative outcomes with each girl.if that doesn't work, try checking which girl you think would be better for him.your his friend, and that would imply that you know him and who he would work well with.pain can't be avoided in this predicament.trust me.i was not the chosen girl so i know that there is going to be pain.i think your goal as the friend is to try and ensure that your friend will be happy and not just momentarily satisfied with one of these girls.make sure that it will last or at least has a good chance of lasting.good luck to your friend if he hasn't already made his decision.
2006-07-01 21:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without any details, it's too ambiguous a situation to give you really any helpful advice, sorry. You don't even mention if he is thinking about wanting to date one of them. The only thing I could say is that he should probably either just stay friends with both of them and stay that way, or he needs to decide (and soon) who he would like to date if that is the case. It's not fair to anyone to keep people guessing like that.
2006-06-19 20:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by randomnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldnt have made that mistake in the first place. If you, sorry your friend doesnt want to feel guilty anymore, s/he's going to have to fess up to one of them. At least he will still have a chance with the other one and wont be living a lie anymore. Of course, you, I mean he could just ask for a threesome.
2006-06-19 20:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jimbo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello...he can love two girls at the same time but the intensity of the feeling will be different toward each one. He may think he loves them the same but the experience is different for each one. I think he wants to have his cake and eat it too!
2006-06-29 08:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by latina311204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be a polygamist and see if they're down with him having two wives. LOL. Nah, seriously he needs to choose one, or else me might lose both. Females don't generally like their significant other being in love with another woman.
2006-06-19 19:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its real a serious problem
my opinion doesn't matter coz its his life but still i believe he might love one more than the other if he do than he can go with her
but if he's confused himself than he should go & confess to both the girlfriends & then either one off them will accept his sorry or no one will do,this way he can loose both & find someone new :)
2006-07-01 23:15:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend should have thought about this problem at first. My answer to this is to follow his heart. If his heart say the one on his left then go wit that one if it say go with the one on the right then follow that one. He also should sit and tell each one how he feels.
2006-07-01 16:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by hotgirl1591 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if the 2 girls are willing to share. Cheating is a no no. He may lose both though, everyone has to be agreeable to it.
2006-07-01 13:54:54 · answer #11 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋