2006-06-19 19:48:09 · 10 answers · asked by shannon b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce papers should get his attention.
2006-06-19 19:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by Troy 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's not just a matter of him leaving them alone. If your husband is spending time talking to other women on the internet I would say that is a red flag that you all have marital issues you need to work on. If he will agree you both need to talk with a marriage counselor and get some help.
2006-06-20 02:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by keri gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all depends...does he know the women he is conversing with? If not, pull the plug. Your man should be focusing on you and you should be focusing on him. Try spicing up your relationship a bit and distract him from the computer. I am sure, being a woman, you know how to work it. Sometimes men need just a little direction...direct him to bed with you. Don't give him enough free time or energy to get on those damn computers.
You go girl...go get your husband...and make him love you even more!
2006-06-20 02:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by mnm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, this guy is CHEATING on you, plain and simple. You can decide what to do about that in another question, however, understand that by doing this he is being unfaithful to you and to his commitment to you. I've heard all the drivel - usually from men - about how as long as it's "just" on the computer it doesn't really "count". Pleease. Don't buy into that. It counts plenty. He is leaking sexual energy that should be going in your direction. And it's WRONG. Does he care that this is hurting you? If he doesn't then give him his walking papers. A man who truly loved you and who was committed to you, in my opinion, would not be doing this. Trust me that there are plenty of guys out there that would not hurt you in this way. Think about hooking up with one of them.
2006-06-20 03:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by Lynn A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he's on the computer, you sneak up behind him and whack him in the head with a cast iron skillet.
Ask him how he would feel if you were talking to other men on the internet. I'm sure he wouldn't like it. Seriously, though, if he doesn't stop, hit him with the frying pan.
2006-06-20 02:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by jerkygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just tell him to stop and tell him how it makes you feel and how it affects you if he continues then you can file divorce because he is cheating on you. It is a form of cheating. And if it doesnt stop he will eventually find a woman that will take him all the way if you know what i mean. Pray for your marriage.
2006-06-20 04:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by Justin D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a frying pan upside the head. Seriously, sounds like there are some major issues brewing here, try some counseling.
2006-06-20 02:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he close the window if you walk by?Or is he open with nothing to hide?Is it just conversation or sexual?If he hides stuff from you it`s because he has something to hide.Turn the tables on him do the same thing and see how he reacts.If bothering you and he knows it and still won`t stop i think there`s no reason to stay with him.
2006-06-20 03:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by jenjen732003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him and tell him what you feel and why you do not want him on it. Tell him how this hurts you and how it makes you feel. If he keeps doing it and does not care how it makes you feel then leave as it is cheating and being unfaithful to you and to your marriage.
2006-06-20 07:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by Fast Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with Troy on this one. Divorce papers. If he's spending "YOUR" time talking with other women, kick him out!
2006-06-20 02:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by pickle head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋