i'm 13 and im waiting till after im 15 to lose my virginity
2006-06-19 19:18:23 · 25 answers · asked by baby joker 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You are too young first of all. I don't mean to belittle you, and I know you feel older than you are. Trust me, when you are older, you will think of 13 as so much younger than you think it is now.
I realize you weren't asking for my opinion on your age, so to answer your question -----------A guy worth giving your virginity to, will wait for you. Don't ever let someone pressure you into it. If he loves you enough to deserve your virginity, he wouldn't pressure you. If you wait, you will save yourself from having to regret doing it. If you are going to end up marrying this guy, then you have plenty of time. Don't rush, please. Put yourself first! Good luck to you.
2006-06-19 19:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
This is my story, I was 15 when I lost my virginity, and let me tell you, at the time I thought it was all cool and what not, but it really wasn't. After that I did sleep around here and there, and now I am 21 and married to the man that I love. I was his first and he was my 12th. And I really wish I would have waited. I look back at the guys I have been with and they mean nothing to me. We never stayed together. I mean we were together for more than a few months, but thats it. I mean my husband would love me no matter what. But I just wish that I would have waited. It would have been so special, and I would have felt so proud to lose my virginity to the man I am going to spend the rest of my life with on our honeymoon. Not only is it a keeping your virginity thing, but there is also STD's where you could die or not be able to have kids and other things. Also you can get pregnant. And I can tell you right now the last thing you need at the age of 13 is a baby. Live your life while you can, you have many MANY years ahead of you to be having sex and making babies. Be the smart one and keep your legs close. Trust me, you will be happier in the long run.
2006-06-20 03:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by SP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Lame; If you give it up he's just gonna take your precious virginity and move on to the next bimbo. When your 21 wishin you had respected your body more it will be to late your virginity will be gone. U should definitely wait longer than 15 yrs old. At 15 you'll fall for any line of BS cause you don't know no better
2006-06-20 02:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait there is no rush even at 15 u are still to young don't do it till later on down the road ur young go out have fun while u still can and put sex on the back burner
2006-06-20 02:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by white_wizard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13 you should be playing with dolls instead of talking or planning about when to lose your virginity. There is no "age" or "time" to lose one's virginity except when it's the right time and that usually happens in ADULTHOOD.
There's a time for everything. At your age, it's the right time to learn, dream and plan.
Tell this guy you're a child. Tell this guy to go somewhere else.
At 13, however, you're a CHILD!!!!!! Go play with dolls and watch cartoons. Enjoy childhood and adolescence...as time goes by you're going to see it's the BEST (absolute best) time of your life!!!
When you're an adult, you will have time for the rest of things. Believe me: you're at your best time in life: enjoy it!!! Make it last. Stay virgin, play, study, travel, dream....you will have time for everything else later.
2006-06-20 02:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by prettiest_lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, if he really cares about you he will wait until you are ready. I would put off loosing your virginity until you are about 17 or 18. I lost mine at 16 (I am now 28) and would love to erase those early years. Prepare your heart to most possibly me broken before considering having sex.
2006-06-20 03:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! No! No! You are WAY too young to be considering this. You need to know that having sex before your body is through growing can cause complications including infertility. I don't know why it doesn't affect boys this way (other than their sex organs are external and females aren't), but sex prior to physical maturity is a very bad idea. Most guys like to brag that they were a girl's first. It is a conquest or victory for them and not usually a meaningful thing that girls would like and choose to believe. Please, please wait. Do a search on the Internet about the damages of sex prior to physical maturity.
2006-06-20 04:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by Redneck-n-happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not even be thinking about having sex! Even at 15, that is too young. Do you want to be a mother? Do you want to get aids? Wait until you are married! This guy you are talking about cares nothing for you, he just wants to have sex! Don't do it!
2006-06-20 03:57:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl y u wait till ur 15 dats still 2 young look havn't u thought of pregancy or STDs? and ur so young besides not 2 be rude or anything but dis guy sounds like a jerk wanting 2 have sex at a young age u can do better and he should respect ur decision. if u do please use protection =]
2006-06-20 02:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um.....No offense but the best thing you could do is stay a virgin until you're married. After sex it could be really stressful for you and the guy. You are risking a teen pregnancy and a std
2006-06-20 07:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋