I have been able to see what I think are ghost, or spirits since I was a child. I am not into the occult, or anything like that. I have done my best to ignore the things I see because I don't want to be seen as a nut case. Lately one spirit has been reappearing to me. I Can't figure out what they want and I'm not sure what to do to get rid of them. I think is a woman and she keeps trying to talk to me but I can't understand her. I'm not John Edward, I don't get paid to talk to the dead. I just want to be normal. What should I do?
2006-06-19 19:15:08 · 27 answers · asked by j_hawkins 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
YOU ARE NORMAL SHE MAY BE YOUR SPIRIT GUIDE TRY TO TELL YOU THAT THIS IS YOUR CALLING NO YOU ARE NOT JOHN EDWARDS BUT YOU COULD VERY WELL BE A SYLVIA BROWN....HAVE YOU EVERY SAVED SOMEONE'S LIFE BECAUSE ONE OF YOUR "GHOST" TOLD YOU TO DELAY SOMEONE (JUST AND EXAMPLE) LET'S BE SERIOUS HERE YOU HAVE SOMETHING MANY WILL NEVER EXPERIENCE AND ITS FRIGHTENING TO BE ABLE TO SEE DEAD PEOPLE HAS GOT TO TAKE ITS TOLL ON YOU AS A PERSON....JUST PRAY ON IT..... IF YOU HELP A FEW PEOPLE YOU HAVE CHANGED THE WORLD SO JUST THINK ABOUT IT NO ONE THINKS YOU ARE CRAZY YOU HAVE A GIFT GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR GIFT AND GOD BLESS YOU USE IT FOR POSITIVE REASONS
2006-06-19 19:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by rawdawgsgo_hard2005 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Try telling them that you want them to leave you alone. Be nice like you would if they were alive. Ghosts are people. It is just that their bodies do not work anymore.
Since, you have seen them since you were little that makes me think that you may not be able to get rid of them. If it has been reappearing it is trying to get your attention. What would happen if you tried to see what it wanted and help it if that was what it wanted. Is it a women you know? A loved one? Maybe it is just your mind playing tricks on you.
You can try faith, not necessarily God. You could check with some churches. Maybe have an exorcism. You might want to try to find someone locally that know about spirits that can help you. Someone in the occult or new age field that might know something about ghosts or how to deal with them. Follow your instincts and I'm sure everything will work out.
You are special because you have a extra sense that most people do not have or that we haven't tapped into. I think you are normal. You just have an issue to deal with that most people don't but I'm sure other people have issues you don't have to deal with either.
2006-06-20 01:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by wwj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to ask yourself is: does this vision seem to be a threat to you? If not, there might not be a need to get rid of "her", as others have stated, maybe she is here to help you, once you have it in you to calm down and listen....
But, if you consider her to be a threat, in my humble experiences with a pair of poltergeists I had to deal with in my apartments#, there are a couple of options.
--the first one, as mentioned above, is the friendly one, and also most likely the quickest option: talk to her. Try to communicate. Ask what is going on and if you can do anything within reason to help. See if you can't guide the stray spirit to peace.
--the second one is a longer, more drawn out deal that will definitely not get you on the good side of your neighbors....flushing the ghost out. Ghosts don't like bright lights and loud noises, so if you have both going to a generous degree at odd hours of the day and night, eventually the ghost will take the hint and leave, but it will take anywhere from a week to a month's worth of non-stop effort, during which the ghost will try to make your life difficult. I can only recommend this with really argumentative spirits that won't listen to reason...
Hope this helps...
2006-06-19 20:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by Bradley P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK.
(1) To ghosts, sensitives (people who can feel and sometimes see spirits) stand out like search lights in a night sky. Consequently, they will always come around whether invited or not. There is nothing you can do to change it. If you a genuine sensitive then this is something that will happen wherever you are.
(2) What do they want? What does anyone want who hasn't accepted it's time to move on? who is still full of regrets/anger/rage/fear/hate and other base emotions? is unwilling to forgive others and themselves? A balanced person in life doesn't seek out a psychiatrist, so a balanced soul doesn't seek out a sensitive.
Most of the time, all they want is to make their presence known so that they know someone still recognizes they exist. Often they want someone to witness their pain and regret and in very few occassions they just want to be trouble.
(3) What to do?
It is not your responsibility to solve the selfish and self pity problems of the dead. It is not your fault and they are certainly not people who show any common courtesy in invading your space. They are like desperate gamblers- hoping without reallly thinking why they are a ghost in the first place. If you want to help them, that is fine. It is also how to generally start to thin out the ranks of spirits who bother you.
(4) How to get rid of them?
Pray for them. Talk to them and when they invade your space unannounced, tell them like any unwanted guest that if they want any recognition, to come only when invited. Can you shut them all out? It is up to you.
2006-06-20 02:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you can see a ghost doesn't mean that you aren't normal! Perhaps the reason why you keep getting visits or appearances from the spirits is because you choose to not acknowledge them. Instead of just trying to cast them aside- Why don't you try a"mental" discussion with them.. Ask them in all sincerity what it is they are seeking from you and to help you understand.
2006-06-20 06:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by Hestia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have blocked your gift for many years this may be a time to re-examine your faith values. There are many people who are gifted, and still have the same relationship with the Divine, as the always have had. Spirits move from one world to the next, as we do. Alot of the times, we are just a beacon of light that they are drawn to. Talk with your faith minister/pastor/leader, and see what they have to say. If you do not have one, read scriptures for understanding. These gifts that we were born with are not to be feared, but to understand, use for good intentions, helping another being (whether be they solid or spiritual.) Pay attention to your dreams, possibly it is a relative that has passed and they have wisdom to pass to you. We are always searching for truth and light. When you learn what they want you to know, the will pass from this existence. And if not, just ask them to leave, but not until you learn what you are to learn, or you will loose on knowledge that may be benificial to your life. May my advice be proficient.
2006-06-20 03:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by celtic_majik_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call John Edward.
Or else just starting doing really gross things so she'll leave.
Play some Hootie or country music. That would get me outta there.
Do ghosts have an olfactory sense? If so, eat lots of beans, and launch your attack.
Maybe she doesn't have any money for a cab to go home?
2006-06-19 19:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by sundrizzler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always burned sage. Every time I move to a new house or I sense negative "vibes" so to speak, I walk through my house burning a stick of sage. It may also be helpful to say out loud - I acknowledge that there is a presence hear that isn't letting go, I respectfully ask that you now leave this place so that I can make it my home for the present and the future. Or something to that extent. I think the key is to acknowledge it, wish it well, and respectfully ask it to leave.
2006-06-19 22:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bible says that when we die we sleep until Judgment Day. What you are seeing is a demon/devil that is trying to trick you into believing that it is a ghost. Why? So that you will accept its presence into your life and possibly open the door to more of its tricks and its buddies which are more devils. They will torment you, scare you, talk to you, tell you to do things for them and eventually posses you. The ultimate trick of these creatures is to get people to believe that there isn't any after life and no consequence to our actions, because we simple just stick around if we want to. That there isn't any Heaven or Hell. The only way to defeat them is trough Christ. The Lord says to call upon His name and He will not turn you away.
2006-06-19 19:52:27 · answer #9 · answered by poobear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this:
1. Get some pomelo/grapefruit leaves
2. soak the leaves in your bathtub. Use cold water
3. Take a bath with the water, especially, wash eyes rigorously with the water.
Believe it or not, you will never be able to see any ghost again. No harm trying it, right?
2006-06-19 20:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by OnTheTreadmill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋