I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago, and we still talk, and know he's talking to other guys, and I know the guys he is talking too, and I feel like a made a mistake but I don't like him at all! is it because I havn't found a guy yet? I don't know what to do!
2006-06-19 19:10:13 · 18 answers · asked by sunny26952000 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You may have these feeling, because you are jealous . You broke up with him for a reason, and now he has another man. Hold your head up , and just go out with friends, and have FUN. do things to forget him. Don't "look" for another guy, rather, let them find you. that always seems to help me when i can't get over a guy.
2006-06-21 05:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by vidalliendo21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Human beings usually want what they can't have.
Also, beware- that may be the sign of an abusive relatioship. For example, no matter how much I didn't like about my husband (x2b), I would always go back or take him back, thinking, when he was away, that I missed him, needed him, loved him, wanted him... but it was just the loneliness, comfort zone, and I think the abuse addiction in my subconscious.
Ok, enough Dr. Freud... sorry...
Take yourself out to Chippendale's, meets a bunch of other nice guys, and you'll be fine. Give it time- old adage, but true.
2006-06-19 19:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by sundrizzler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the whole story but I would have to assume that he did something to hurt you and that is why you are telling yourself that you don't like him when in reality you like him so much that you are trying to avoid those feelings. Sit down and talk about the issues between the two of you and maybe that love can grow again.
2006-06-20 06:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by seven2379 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The heart has its reasons to which reason knows nothing of. You will get over it soon enough. 1 month is not very long. I dated a guy for about a week and i liked him so much that i was not over him 3 months after he went back to his ex. Retard. now i just hate. him. you will be fine.
2006-06-19 21:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that u don't want him n the fact that he's talking 2 some 1 n your not it makes u mad when u find some 1 your 4 get about it
2006-06-19 19:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by nobeslady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this is what you're dealing with, but I will tell you how I am...There have been time when I've broken up with people..not having feelings for them anymore, but when I hear about them with someone else, I don't like it at all...It's called, not wanting to be with someone, but at the same time, not wanting them to be with anyone else...Even though you don't have feelings for them anymore, you just feel like that sometimes...May be a bit selfish...
2006-06-20 03:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by mesofemme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm I am sorry you are having problems.
OK now go out and find another guy and have wild monkey sex. You just need to get back on that horse and ride a cowboy. er well you know what I mean.
2006-06-20 03:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sunny I think maybe you are just lonly because I know exactly what you are going through when I broke up with my boyfriend the same thing happend to me
2006-06-22 21:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by Justin s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were in love with him, you did not know or perhaps just acustomed to him in some way; so look for other guys, they will help to forget, and also give time to time
2006-06-20 04:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have vain and selfish reasoning...and want things you cannot have...learn to make a decision for once in your life and stick to it...and quit pulling him like a puppet for your lack of decision making...he can do whatever the hell he wants and so can you...but you have to make a decision and stick to it.
2006-06-19 19:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by ILAUGHATU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋