2006-06-19 19:01:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am sorry to say but this Q. is only for married people. After few years of marriage some people wants more fun in their sex life otherwise lif is just routine and you can't have sex all your life.
2006-06-19 19:26:34 · update #1
I'm sure there are people that do that, however, I think it is so wrong. If you want more fun in your sex life talk to each other and find ways to spice up the lovemaking. There are so many things out there as far as sexual items that if you are willing to try you might find you like it.
If you are already bored with your sex life after a few years of marriage then i would go to a counselor or a sex therapist and see where it went wrong.
Before you do that look at other options. If you are not happy with any alternatives then you have to do what you think is best for your marriage and lovemaking.
2006-07-03 16:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by allyp51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you married your husband because you loved him, why would you want to trade him for some one else? Marriage vows are something two people do when they decide they don't need anyone else between them. I could never hurt my husband like that. What would you do if he did that to you and you weren't the one that wanted that feeling? Your inviting a lot of trouble that you probably don't need. At least have the decency to file for a divorce if you are "bored" with him . Don't stick a knife in his heart and turn it by doing this to him while you are married.. Do unto others as you would want them done to you... What goes around comes around... Hope you get over that lil phase.... try being more spontaneous and exciting with your husband. Good luck
2006-07-03 06:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by Tainted_Halo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a whole different lifestyle. If you are in love with him and only him and he feels the same way and you both want to try this, then go for it, but once you do it there is no going back. If you or your husband are the jealous type, then this is not for you. There is a lifestyle convention in Las Vages this month, you both might try going before you try sex with others. You might also try a threesome, FFM or MMF so that you are both involved together first. There is no cheating with a lifestyle like this, you have sex with others together. Check it out first and lots of talking first. If you like it, it's a great way to go and you meet lots of great people.
2006-06-19 19:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by GERRY D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love deals with truth and honest sex, so if you do something like that it's sick. It betrays the both of you. why would you want to do that ? is the sex not good? even if you want to spice it up a little then, you guys can do all kinda of freaky stuff together wit each other.
2006-07-03 22:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by Marisa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless if you're kool with your husband sleeping with one of his freinds, then I don't think so. And I'm not married but I am in a relationship and I would never consider it. Just thinking about it makes me sick.
2006-06-19 19:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by * TeXaS cHiCk * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never have, never will. It is NOT ok. Unless of course you feel like loosing your husband to your best friend!! Allow it once, and they will think they have the green light!!!
2006-06-19 19:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by teashy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. well first off i am not married, plus i am a guy, But, i would never swing with my wife. its just weird.
but, as long as you are both OK with it, i guess there is no problem, its just something that some people like.
2006-06-19 19:05:25 · answer #7 · answered by sobrien 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lmao Drinkie you are crazy...im a male and im not married but i did my girlfriend though. yeah it is ok if yall both agree on it. but dont do it behind his back
2006-07-01 20:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your Coolcagal name says it all....your a freak! You think your cool, and you think its cool to swap...your a freak...sorry...but on the serious side nothing good could come from this type of behavior...NOTHING!
2006-07-01 19:47:18 · answer #9 · answered by knrsits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times i used to sleep with my husband friend he is capable of screwing me better than my husband.when u r in mood of sex ther is no fault to do this kind of activities
2006-06-19 19:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by Mr.Right 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋