We've been together for over a year and everythings been GREAT until about 3 weeks ago. He's recently been verbally (mostly) and physically abusive. Normally he is so affectionate and loving and basically a great guy. But all of a sudden he is off and on, good and bad and spends more and more time with his friends. I feel like hes treating me like a 7/11, like I should be be open 24/7 for his convenience. Has he just lost his mind or is he cheatin or what??!!
2006-06-19 18:24:28 · 15 answers · asked by Amy O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like he's doing drugs.
If he has been physically abusive it is time to get out no matter how much you think you love the guy.
There is someone else that will treat you better.
2006-06-19 18:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by dreamychantal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has lost his damn mind and you have to for putting up with it.
You Know What If You're asking what to do then must listen close I was have the very same problem then about three day ago I snapped I picked the heaviest thing I Could find And began to hit then when I got tired I told him to get the hell out then I left. That's to take care of the abuse part. Now I'll say this much my mama use to say if you feel it then don't pass it off act on it. But your man doesn't have to be cheating for him to change believe me I know it seems like that's the only thing I ever end up with But baby girl be smart first sit down and think is your life worth trying to fix something that's already broke because if it wasn't broke you wouldn't be here looking for answers.
2006-06-20 01:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by leshanevaehforu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should take physical or verbally abuse from anyone period. No exceptions. If he is having mood changes it is for a reason. His cheating or simply has lost interest and doesn't know how to tell you. But save some time and extra heartache and loose him quick. Listen and read what you just wrote. You already have your answer
2006-06-20 01:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by Moca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he didn't loose his mind.. guys need there own space. they consider girls as a sperm bank. deposits are made during regular business days... when the bank closes, he does whatever he wants... hanging out with buddys, whatever.
If he's cheating on you... then you ain't getting none anymore or it's not like how it use to be.
Good luck with ya, & giving him some space while doing your thang is good. Oh btw; if he hasn't introduced you to any of his friends or whatever, get ready to get the boot when he finds another girl.
2006-06-20 01:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by Batman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's a tipical situation dear
he is simply losing interest in u. he need some space
just try to avoid him too. dont call him & he will automatically call u to know the reason y r u not talking to him he"ll start approaching to u & then u can discuss about u r problem to him
hear it from me this is my personal xperience
(DONT CALL HIM AT ALL ....BE STEADY IN U R DECISION)
remember if u love some1 just let him go if he comes back then he"ll be urs forever . but if he dont then..................u know he is not of u r type guys generally try to show off in front of woman that they r the best for them ..but the reality is farrrrrr away..
remember lady u have u r own dignity dont let it down for n y silly guy if he ignores u then it's he who is the looser not u
best of luck
2006-06-20 01:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you can say he is cheating...He might just be sick of you...And that's just the truth. You shouldn't allow him to treat you like that and don't be there for his every beck and call. You should not be available for him whenever he wants you to be.
Start to be a mystery to him and he will appreciate you more...Either that or you will see that he really doesn't care.
2006-06-20 01:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you watch any TV? When he says he's going out with buddies.....he may be going out with someone else. I hate to break it to ya but it all adds up nicely! I think you already know the answer to this question. I'm really sorry about that though.
2006-06-20 01:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by Pete El Pirata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drugs most likely if he is with his friends. That's if he is really with his friends. But there is definitely something going on. Either way if you find out for sure get out now.
2006-06-20 01:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by Jo Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a little time, you cant say about a day or two.he will definately try to contact you.. i he doesant show up. go to him and ask him if wherther he is having any problem with this relationship. if he is not sure i suggest you leave him. you will just be waisting tour time.
2006-06-20 01:32:30 · answer #9 · answered by aslan p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is something going on and YOU need to sit this man down and find out..... if he is abusive you need to put a stop to it or move on... it will only get worse..... he is cheating , drugs or alcohol...... find out now...... sit the man down and tell him you are tired of being his emotional and physical punching bag.. either he comes clean and tells you what the prob. is or YOU need to set a time line for clearing out........ God bless
2006-06-20 01:31:00 · answer #10 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋