If you were with a woman, but are now married to a man, does that make me in denial? or still confused?

Answer 1

It makes you bisexual. It is very common and nothing to worry about. You are actually lucky to have such a variety of potential partners to be attracted to. I went through a time of hoping that I was bisexual and found that I was not.

It is best if you know yourself and know and admit at least to yourself that you are bisexual. It is nothing to be ashamed of, however I would keep it to myself. Why bring on any critisism from the narrow minded ones?

Answer 2

No, if you were in de Nile you would be all wet or at least part wet but you might be confused because de Nile is not where you are at or are and maybe were.
First you need to sort out if you were a man but are now a woman or were.
I am not nor I ever have been a woman but am married to one and I am not confused and I am not in de Nile.

Answer 3

Quite a large percent of the population has been with a member of the same sex before marrying a member of the opposite sex. It may be "experementing" or "Bisexual" or "Confused."

For the most part, sex is sex, and if you stimulate your sex organs, it feels good. This can lead to some confusion. Many victims of rape think they liked it because it felt good. Don't get me wrong, I am not saying sex with a woman is like rape, or is wrong. I'm just saying, it probably felt good, and this may lead to some confusion.

Ask yourself: Do you still find women attractive? Do you love your husband sexually? Do you want to be with another woman?

If you still love your husband, and do not want to be with another woman, you are in a great relationship, regardless of whether or not you are attracted to women, and if you ever feel the urge to cheat on your husband with anyone, you can deal with that as it comes up.

If you still find women attractive, Big F Deal. There's a reason virtually all nude art is based on a female body, and it isn't because most artists are straight men, or gay women.

If you do not love your husband in a sexual way, he will probably have issues with this, and counselling of some type is in order. Either you stay with him, or you don't. If you don't you can think about women all you want.

If you do love your husband sexually, AND you want to be with another woman, this can also lead to problems, BUT, lots of men dream of having two women, and yours may be willing to share if you are. There are a lot of ways to bring this up without making him feel bad. Counselling is one option. Various adult entertainment sources would also provide ample options for brining the subject up.

Of course, if what you want is to be with a woman all by yourself, you simply desire to cheat on your husband. This is generally reason for counselling, or a lot of serious fights.

Answer 4

OK there are a few scenario to ur situation. either you're bi or ur just experimental and if u r confused wit ur sexuality i suggest meet other women. see what it feels like again. if u really do have a stronger bond between them, then u should waste no more time being unsatisfied or unhappy or confused wit ur present spouse. and if ur in denial...don't be in it anymore. u should embrace ur sexuality. it will make u happier and comfortable wit yourself.

Answer 5

When were you with this woman? Before the marriage, or during? If before, you were just having fun and experimenting, if during, its the same as cheating and you really just need to ask yourself why?