I have many aquaintesices, but no close friends. I'm tired of superficial relationships.
2006-06-19 18:03:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Ah finally you have asked the one question I cannot answer. I too struggle with this same problem.
I think that to ask someone over to your house is the first step, and offer them something to drink. I have always just allowed other people to befriend me and it has not happened very often.
You sound so much like me in some ways actually.
I will be watching the answers to this to see if I can learn anything.
I do wish I knew you in person. I think we would be friends.
2006-06-19 18:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
as the person stated prior, mayby ur coming across as superficial and don;t realize it, try just being a friend. That means jsut bering there when they need you, going out and acting stupid and you can both laugh at it, lean on each other when you need someone that is solid like a rock, or soft when you need them. Don't give into to anything else other than ur gut instinct for them, once you have that kind of friend, they can be a life long friend, even when time and distance put space there btwn you
2006-06-20 01:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by back2skewl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being a friend to find a friend. Maybe your relationships are superficial only because you have been superficial with people.
2006-06-20 01:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by Vidya P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that typically, as we get older, we tend to have fewer new friendships that seem as strong as the ones we have as kids. not saying thats a bad thing, though. usually as a child, you're learning everything for the first time, and thats where the opportunity for new friends lies. as you do things for the first time, you meet new ppl, and try the things that they're doing. as we get older, we already know who we are, so we dont try as many new things, and dont meet as many new ppl. so, try something new, and see if you can meet some new ppl. or, try to join in on the interests of your existing friends. if you find something you like, maybe you and that friend can do that hobby together, and you can strengthen your friendship.
2006-06-20 01:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by hellion210 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being a friend and you will find that you will gain many friends.
2006-06-20 01:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by 100% Chance of Pain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the person you really want to be good friends with and start talking to them more and more. And hang out with them.
2006-06-20 01:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by The One 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is very easy...love people by your heart...your heart will do the rest...and soon u will have a alot of close friends
2006-06-20 01:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by loneman1973 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep with them first. that way there isn't all of that sexual tension all the time.
2006-06-20 01:06:31 · answer #8 · answered by good knower 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋