i have to repeat the grade because when i would try to study she would cry and i would just give up i love my baby but please give me some pep talk before i brake down.
2006-06-19 17:45:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
What scares me is your screenname...honey, 1991 makes you 14, maybe 15....and you are calling yourself sexy....wow...you were probably playing with Barbies 2 years ago, and now you are a mother and worrying about making sure people know you are sexy.
Sweetheart, that is positively frightening.
You seem like you are a kind of smart girl. I say kind of...because you were having sex. You knew you could get pregnant, but you did it anyway. But you want to finish school...that is good. You failing a grade is not your baby's fault. It is a natural consequence of your actions. And that is what you need to face.
I admire you for having your baby. Doing the right thing and not having an abortion. But you have your WHOLE LIFE ahead of you.
If you really love your baby...you need to think about loving her enough to give her to a couple who can give her the family she deserves- the family you simply cannot give her if you are in high school. A lot of places allow YOU to pick the parents...and some parents will let you be a part of her life. Do you maybe have a family member who has been unalbe to have children? If you get along with that couple, it could be a good choice- then your baby is raised by family. That is the way it used to be done, before having children out of wedlock became so popular.
Call your pastor...or ANY pastor if you don't go to church if you need help finding an adoption agency.
You can start over, and have the kind of life you deserve, too. It won't be easy- the right thing never is, unfortunately....but it will be the absolute best thing for you and for your baby.
I will be praying for you!
2006-06-19 18:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by Mommy_to_seven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will do fine. Just study while it(he?she?) is asleep. Probably be a good idea to pawn it off on a baby daddy sometimes, or a grandparent. Just take a deep breath, relax, and find time to study. Try studying at school during breaks, home room, and lunch. But first you gotta stop feeling sorry for yourself and realize its your fault, not the baby's. After all, you just had a baby and your failing for the year, so you weren't a good student before the baby came.
2006-06-19 18:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by spidermonkeyfingers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can do it. I've known many teenager moms that did very well in school and passed with great grades. Talk to your parents and ask them to watch the child while you are studying. Or maybe a grandparent or Aunt or Uncle. I'm sure they would be willing to help. Talk to the school and find out if they have any programs for teenage moms, most schools do and are more than willing to adapt if they don't. Talk to them it never hurts to ask. Don't give up just because the baby cries. I'm sure he wouldn't mind if you read the book to him. It will help you read the pages that you need to and he will enjoy the time spent with you reading to him. He may not understand but it will help him enjoy reading more as a teenager and an adult.
2006-06-19 17:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by roach46342 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look into your school's programs for teen moms the have alot of good programs like some even have day care on the spot aloso the have home study programs where you pick up your work and bring it back in a week and get new work..you still get to graduate under the same rules and regulations as everyone else.
2006-06-19 17:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by dd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u had a son??but u are having a hard time due to her im sorry ? i dont get it?well wheres the baby daddy give him the baby while ur trying to "study" .
2006-06-19 17:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by crazy_mexican_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all...I would think you need to sit down and figure out if you had a son or a daughter. You say son...but you call the child a her? That should really be your first priority I think....
2006-06-19 17:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by Karma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame the child, just study when your baby is napping. Do your best.
2006-06-19 17:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
while ur at school see if your mom can watch the baby and while you study
2006-06-19 18:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had a son, or a daughter?
2006-06-19 17:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by Toxxikation 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you reffering to your son as a "her"?
2006-06-20 04:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by kykygoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋