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My wife is pregnant & I just cant hold on without sex. How can i get satisfied.I mean what all I can do for it.

2006-06-19 17:28:14 · 19 answers · asked by bharat d 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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First of all, my husband and I had sex the whole 9 months so I am guessing your wife was told she couldn't. Second, are you kidding? There are sssoooo many things that the two of you can do to satisfy your needs until she is able to have sex again. EVERYTHING but actual penetration. Good luck.

2006-06-19 17:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0 1

We need alittle more info on this not anything overly personnel but like why wont she satisfy you? Is There a problem or does she just not feel like it? When I was pregnant with my twins my husband was the one that did not want it after about the 7th month he said he didn't feel right. Anyway Just don't cheat there is nothing worse then a cheater especially when she is pregnant. That's unforgivable. There are some different positions also. Hope this helps.

2006-06-19 18:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jo Jo 2 · 0 0

You and your wife should still be able to have sex all the way up until the end of the pregnancy. If she is in her first tri-mester she may be feeling tired...give her a break at night and try again in the morning. Once she hits her second tri-mester she should be feeling better, and, hopefully, in the mood more often.

2006-06-19 17:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by dmonstergirl 2 · 0 0

note to ☺MrS. FrAnK☺ 's comment above...
if he does that to his wife after the baby is born, they will have loooong lasting problems for their marriage for years. that is what happened to my husband and me, when i was pregnant i was mildly traumatized by the whole thing and could not stand him touching me. he got so hurt by it that he still won't give me affection or voluntarily tell me he loves me becasue i pushed him away so much. the ironic thing is, i never meant to.
maybe your wife is having the same or similar issues i had. it has nothing to do with not wanting you, and everything to do with the changing of her hormones and her body, and the changing of both of your lives. please do not push her away and please do not go out on her. try and talk to her, and if that doesn't work, try coming up behind her one day and rubbing her shoulders, or kissing her neck. maybe a little makeout session will get the fire going. some women can feel an abundance of horniness during their pregnancy, others feel a much harder time becoming aroused. assure her that you still find her sexy, go out of your way to do unexpected nice things for her. i know it may seem pointless and selfish on her part right now, but if you are understanding and kind to her now, when this is over believe me, she WILL remember that..... good luck to you and congratulations on your new baby!

2006-06-19 18:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by mrs_eke 2 · 0 0

There is nothing wrong with having sex while she is pregnant! Ask her doctor he will tell you it is perfectly safe. Even after her doctor tells you that it is safe she still does not give it to you then tell her to please you in other ways.. ya get the drift! and lets face it if she does not do anything at all for you then go to a local adult book store and get some toys for yourself. and please ur self in anyway passable but remember once the baby is born and she wants some of you don't give it to her. let her suffer like she is making you suffer not pleasing you!

2006-06-19 17:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by ~Mrs.C 4 · 0 0

Dang, I had the best sex of my life when my wife was pregnant with both our children. I'm not sure if it was the hormones or what, but she was horney all the time. Great time for all! So does she just not want to? Have you talked with her about it? Otherwise, introduce yourself to your hand!

2006-06-19 18:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by ur_ave_joe 3 · 0 0

i really can't believe that you conceived a baby and have not figured this one out. well you can do yourself or let her handle it emphasis on hand or there are other ways. here are some don'ts don't do anyone else. oh tell her how beautiful she is and that your love is endless for her. after all she is carrying your child and she needs to hear it. oh and these strokes of love might just get you some strokes you know what i mean

2006-06-19 17:38:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

She won't go down on you? I know she's pregnant and all, but, she can find ways to satisfy you. Are you still keeping her satisfied? Maybe rub her feet and back once in a while and she will be more likely to reciprocate with sexual favors. Like a handie.

2006-06-19 17:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by tortasinqueso 3 · 0 0

man when my wife was pregnant she loved having sex. that is something that you and yours have to work out with each other. make sure she knows your needs and what you want. also listen to what she wants but let her know how your feeling and let her know the exercise is ALWAYS good for the baby!

2006-06-19 18:02:33 · answer #9 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0 0

Just because she is pregnant doesn't mean you can't have sex. Unless there is a problem and the DR says no...then there isn't any reason to stop your normal sexual relationship with her.

2006-06-19 17:33:54 · answer #10 · answered by lisaann 2 · 0 0

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