my best friend and soon to be girlfriend is beaten by her mother all the time because her mom was beaten as a child. weve tried everything thats popped into our heads but nothing works. PLEASE GIVE ME SUGGESTIONS!!!!
2006-06-19 16:51:21 · 17 answers · asked by korey h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If i was you i would ethere call the police or c.a.s!!!! I know what she is going throw cuz when i was a child i was a bused myself by my brothers dad and it was not fun at all!!!!! So please do me this faver and ethere call the cops or c.a.s.Do not let her go a nothere day with this abuse cuz then you mint see on the news that it would be tolate to get help cuz her mom abused her so bad that she killed her!! i will pray for you!!!!!
good luck!!!!! and god bless you
2006-06-19 17:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by S W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you taken it too children services. Sorry to say but if it has gotten that bad it is time to contact someone who can do somethying. Wait until she has a bruise and take it to them. If you can hide a video recorder somewhere where she would beaten her. Then take that tape to them. She will most likely get put with a family member of in foster care but she would be better off trust me. No one should have to go through that. I know it will be hard for her but with you there she can get through it.
2006-06-19 23:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your guidance counselor or a teacher at school. Child abuse is a criminal matter and the authorities will step in and intervene to protect your friends and get help for the parents who are abusing.You can't change the parents behavior. They have to want to and hopefully having the children out of the house will do it.
2006-06-20 00:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by Legal_Beagle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever try hitting back? I know it's not right to hit your parents, but if it is that out of hand and you say your tried a lot, what else can you do to put a stop to it? I assume your friend has tried talking to her mother about. If she hasn't then she definitely should. If none of that works then you better hope she's the one and move in together.
2006-06-19 23:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by damethodman10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your girlfriend. If she is a minor, I would advise her to see a social worker. If she's an adult, I'd advise her that the next time mom starts to take out her frustration on her, she needs to be prepared to stand up and tell her the "end" is now. No more beatings or you will report her sorry *** to the police. Then do it if necessary.
2006-06-19 23:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell people! take pictures of the bruises! tell your teachers, school councelors, friends, strangers, policemen, anyone that will listen to you and help you take action! taking pictures will help prove they are human made and not done on accident (also, get a camera that imprints the date on the pic, it might come in handy if you ever want to become immancipated from her). have you tried to go live with a relative? grandparent? aunt? friend? anyone else??
other than that, all i can tell you is to stay out of her way and comply with anything she asks of you to keep from getting beat and hope you make it till your 18 and can leave home.
good luck. i hope you will become safe soon.
2006-06-19 23:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to an adult that you have in common- like a teacher or other trusted adult- because this is not something that kids can fix.
Her mother needs therapy because she is transferring behaviors from her own childhood onto her kid.
If she is being seriously hurt, please call child protection services- you can remain anonymous and your situation will be addressed by a social worker.
good luck.
2006-06-19 23:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by sarahliz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont gt yourself in a position to get hurt first of all, second keep her away from her mom if you can and if you go to the police they will tell her to find a safe place to live until they can check it out.. i have a friend whose dad beat her and all th poliec did was tell her to move in with someone else.
2006-06-22 10:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by survivorcrazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact your local Department of Children and Families
(do a search for that in yahoo local).
Contact them and tell them what you've just told us.
Do it NOW, don't let her go another day.
2006-06-19 23:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm, call child services, move, or my personal favorite for child beaters, beat her with a base ball bat the next time she does it, nothing to serious, few body shots otta work.
2006-06-19 23:55:53 · answer #10 · answered by Joshua G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋