She admitted under oath that she slept with another man. I gave into her demands in the divorce(like an idiot), thinking that if I guive her what she wants then maybe we would have a chance to work things out later. I got screwed when she screwed him. I can be very vendictive myself. So I want to put this in the small town paper where she lives. Don (me) I very sorry that your wife and I slept together when the two of you were married and I'm sorry that I contributed to your's and Wendy's divorce. Please forgive me.
Joe M.
An anonomous ad in the personals should do it.
Adultery is a major thing remember the scarlet letter. When I saw that I thought it was harsh. But now I see that it was Justified. It damages lives. And there is no justification for it no excuse and no retrobution. Do you think it to harsh ?????
2006-06-19 16:47:20 · 9 answers · asked by bigblock_475_hp d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and then this guy joe gets away with having sex with another mans wife. what did he get out of it ???? She made him feel good about himself and he is proud of it I'm sure.
2006-06-19 16:49:23 · update #1
I went through something very similar to what you describe. She was sleeping with my supervisor. I wanted to burn both of them to the ground. Somehow I managed to keep my cool though and kept my self respect. She has already screwed you over in too many ways to count. DO NOT let her do it again walk away from this and leave it alone especially if kids are involved. You will gain nothing from what you plan but a few minutes of satisfaction. Things like that have a way of biting you. I know you want derive much satisfaction from choking back your anger, but in the long run you will be glad you did belive it or not that old saying about what goes around comes around is true just wait you will get vindication.I wish you well. Please don't let the desire for payback steal your joy.
2006-06-19 17:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by Den_Rode_Bjornen_Losener 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 20:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do that, in the end, you'll end up looking like the bad guy. The last word isn't always the best. Word of mouth travels on it's own. Karma has some neat tricks of it's own too. Save your time, money and energy, which will be well spent on building a more secure life for yourself and your potential true love. Don't let this make you bitter, let it make the memory bittersweet.
2006-06-19 17:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your time and money would be better spent moving forward rather than rehashing old & irrelevant issues.
Other people do not care and you will end up looking more foolish than she.
BTW, I seriously doubt the paper will take the ad and you may want to investigate various laws regarding "stalking" and "libel" before you continue.
But, to each his own.
Additional comment:
You aren't getting revenge, you are making yourself look foolish. If that's what you intend, you are doing a good job of it.
Ignore her/them, let it go and move on and that will be the best revenge.
2006-06-19 16:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by Left the building 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen in situations like this i am all for a little revenge so go ahead and run the ad / however after that let it go it's not worth the anguish. live your life knowing this woman or men that cheat in their relationships will live to see it happen to them. and guys that sleep with other guys wives end up living with a bar fly and herpes
2006-06-19 17:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband cheated on me recently and I have to say, I totally understand where you're coming from. However, what's that gonna solve if you do that? Won't it really just do more harm than good? Won't that just begin a tit-for-tat battle? I wouldn't waste my time. Are people like that really worth wasting anymore of our precious time on? I don't think so.
2006-06-19 17:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by Bliss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you bet he's bragging right now, I think that is a hysterical idea, and I wish I would have thought of it....Do it! I'm behind you all the way!
It's not to harsh...How harsh was it on your feelings anyway?
2006-06-19 17:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it hurts you know.....i think it would be best for u to let go...and forget it.......she's not worth it.....
If you want revenge, then move on with your life, and be happy...that's the best form of revenge!
Good luck
PS: i advise you to seek counseling.....it will help you cope
2006-06-19 17:01:51 · answer #8 · answered by xqueenyx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to do something to save face,revenge if a good thing ,if you do it right.good luck
2006-06-19 17:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋