Premarrital Sex?

Question

Is it ok,wrong, or necessary?

I AM MARRIED

Answer 1

Would you buy a new car without test driving it first?

Answer 2

It's Up To Those Involved. If People Chose To Wait For Marriage That's Great. I Really Admire The Restraint It Takes. If They'd Rather Not. Then That's Okay Too. I Say Do What Feels Right At The Time.

Answer 3

It is NECESSARY!!! You are only human and God gave you wants and desires and he wants you to be a sexual being he made you this way no doubt but the key is to be smart about it. Don't make a soul tie with some one that is not ready and if you are not ready. Sex is very serious and very spiritual. If you give your body to another person you will have feelings for them and if they don't return those feelings you will be hurt. So sex is necessary but be very careful when dealing with it.

And some of these people that are saying that premarital sex is WRONG have done it before they got married if they not still doing it now they are not being truthful. Listen to the mind and the heart....

Answer 4

This is just my opinion so don't take it personal! I think that Premarrital Sex is wrong. I think this because god made sex for after people are married. What happens if you get cold shoulders and don't end up marring? What if you end up pregnant and you don't end up getting married! there is to high of a chance for those things to happen!

Answer 5

I personally think it is ok. I have nothing against it, but people are going to follow their beliefs-whatever they may be. Some follow a religion where it is wrong and people are not supposed to have sex before marriage. That's their belief. I am catholic, but don't really follow the religion so strictly. People are going to do what they feel is right, and for some, premarital sex is what feels right. Some feel it is necessary-to see if there is the sexual connection with his/her significant other. It varies from person to person.

Answer 6

Sure if can you handle the consequences of the act if you can provide for a child love feed nurture educated be committed to a partner in raising the child or be strong enough to be both parents to a child then sure don't say anything about condoms or birth control non 100 percent effective

Answer 7

Well, I have sex before marriage. Have since I was 18 (am now 41). If my dad had known that, he would have been very mad as he had been a preacher for a few years. He had told me for years that it was wrong, but he also pushed religion onto me. In my opinion, it is what ever makes you happy. If you believe in having sex before marriage, then do it. If you don't, then don't. I don't put any body down or judge anyone because they don't believe in it.

Answer 8

It isn't wrong. My school forced the idea of abstinence. So what
happens, high school couples marry shortly after graduating
just to have sex and wind up getting divorced. If you love this
person, it feels right, and you don't feel pressured into doing it
then you should.

Answer 9

it depends on the person...if its a prostitute she wont marry u just 2 sleep with u all she want is ur money. n there were lots of them in the bible...i have had premarital sex n i didnt die so i guess its ok not necessary cing as many people stay virgin's until marrage

Answer 10

Marriage is a made up institution to control the masses. Most everything was made up by people trying to control people, like the Bible. Boink away!

The answerer above me is a moron, because they believe WHATEVER they are told. Parents are idiots who cram malarkey into unsuspecting children. Off with their heads!

Answer 11

Okay! Ignore the religious nutjobs. Remember; they're playing by an obsolete rule book.