this is further to the question about my boyfriend talking to the 17 year old. i found out she sent him a naked body shot of herself.he said he loved it. he doesnt think he did anything wrong but clearly boundaries were crossed and he didnt even consider my feelings.so how can he say he didn't do anything wrong?you don't do that when your in a relationship and if thats what you are doing its time to get out right? what do you think?
2006-06-19 16:44:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmmm I am willing to bet that you dont want to lose him. and probably can justify and make up a bunch of excuses for him to make yourself feel better, but the thing is you know deep down that what he did aint a good sign and that relationship is not going to get much better if the guy keeps doing things like that. So ...sorry ,but I think you should seriously think about finding a replacement and then quickly get out when you have your next guy lined up =) good luck
2006-06-20 13:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he can't admit that he did something wrong, then he is probably not worth your time. You ought to find a dude who stands on more solid moral ground than that. I mean, suppose you two get over it and get married, what's he gonna do next with that kind of moral code? I'll tell you what, he'll cheat on you, then he'll try and make it out to be your problem not his. It's called 'manipulation' and deceit. He's a loser and a jerk if he doesn't respect you enough to not look at other girls like that. Just dump him and go find a good guy, then he can wallow in his misery and realize he lost a good woman. Maybe he will wise up if you're the first girl to stand up to him. Probably not, but at least you'll be rid of the dirt bag. Look at Hilary Clinton, do people respect her? Nope, her husband cheated on her in front of the world, and most people think she got walked all over because of her faithfulness to her horny husband. I'd say ditch him and pray for mr. right to come your way. You'll be a lot better off. Guys get away with this stuff cause girls let them. Don't let another jerk get away with this dispicable behavior.
2006-06-19 23:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by Ready2Learn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first off he you got proof that he liked it then that's the first problem. you all need to get an understanding. Second if he has you there then he don't need to be looking at other women in the first place. third if don't think that he doe any thing wrong then he has a problem, and why i say that is because men seem to think that if they don't physically touch a person (sexually) then it ain't cheating if you are thinking about another woman then they will easily cheat. Girlfriend i say move on and get you some one that love you and not the Internet whoes.
2006-06-19 23:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by sexual chocalate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out now! This guy is turning into a pervert right before your very eyes. Anything below 18 will get him jail time. If he's looking and conversing with other women, MOVE ON. Don't stick around and watch it get worse, because it will.
2006-06-19 23:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Number 1 thats gross, the girl should find kids her age. Number 2 he's gross thinking thats nice. seriously find a man who appreciates YOU and not a braty 17 year old. trust me honey theres plenty of fish in the sea!
2006-06-19 23:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by Hmmm I Think??? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is so busted and so wrong,if he thinks he can convince you he did nothing wrong he must be a car salesman,and not only wrong perverted, if you ask me she is to young,and if he does not think this is wrong do you want to have a daughter by him,kick him to the curb good luck
2006-06-19 23:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by John 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out fast! If he'll do things like this that hurt your feelings it
WILL get worse over the years. Good Luck :-)
2006-06-20 00:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and let his reaction to your feeling tell you what to do, especially if it really hurt you, if you let someone hurt you and act like its nothing, they will think its okay to hurt you, and wont take you or your feelings seriously. make him know that it isnt okay, your just dating its not like your married, if he means alot to you its probly in your best intrest to find out what you mean to him because his view may be different than yours on your "type" of relationship and "type" of committment or obligation to each other.
2006-06-19 23:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by nikki 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break it off now and get out. Do not stay in this relationship as it is not a good one. Run dont walk!!!!
2006-06-19 23:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, weird, first of all. this 17 year old is handing out nudie pics of herself. that's just desparate.
second of all, it doesn't speak well of your guy that he accepted it. worse, he said he loved it.
It's obvious he doesn't care about you or your feelings, or you for that matter. if he wants to chase jailbait, let him. time to go find someone more honorable.
2006-06-19 23:47:48 · answer #10 · answered by mystique_365 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋