he calls me names, won't take me anywhere on honeymoon i jamaica we didn't have sex, i am so lonely cant tell parents mom would just cry. i rather be hurt than she. why did he marry me i have gained weight maybe 15lbs. but do i deserve this
2006-06-19 16:06:29 · 12 answers · asked by lanika k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is nothing wrong with you. Your husband is emotionally abusive. He needs counseling, if he refuses you should consider divorce. You do not deserve to be treated that way
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2016-05-18 03:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is the cause of your weight gain, you do not deserve his abusive words. Love does not act that way. Get out of that relationship while you still can. Leave him now, stay with your family, your mom will be hurt, but she will heal. You can hurt and heal together. Time heals all wounds, both of you get into counseling, and move on with your lives. Your future is bright, go towards the light. Good luck to you.
2006-06-19 16:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jeanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Need To Ask Him Why He Marry You..??!!And Thats Wrong He Dont Need To Call You Those Names Talk To Him About That!!How About Before Married He Was Like That To??
2006-06-19 16:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by ❀Mother Of 2❀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen honey, you need to tell your mom. If you can talk to her, talk to her. This guy doesn't love you. Marriage is for better or worse, not for 15 lbs or 50 lbs. Whats going to happen if you become ill?? Leave you??? Your getting a wake up call. Talk to your mom, moms can always help. Sounds to me like he is still in love with his ex. Best to end this marriage now before you loose total self esteem. Bless you. You don't deserve this, so don't take it.
2006-06-19 17:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he doesn't have the right to call you these names. You should divorce him and find someone that will truly love you for who you are. Your Mom would rather you be happy than being hurt by this man.
2006-06-19 16:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by septima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no 1 should talk to 2 anyone like that! You need to worry about yourself, this is mental abuse. Try talking to him, if that doesn't work, you need 2 decide if you can live this way or not.
Good luck & God Bless You.
2006-06-19 16:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by Just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs help and counseling and so do you for this mental and emotional abuse. You need to tell your parents what is going on if he wont listen to you. Leave him if he is doing this and see if that changes anything. This abuse can turn physical so get out now.
2006-06-19 16:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know just what you are talking about. No you don't deserve it, and it is not good to be treated this way. Don't have any children by him. Good Luck!!
2006-06-19 16:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 answers in less than 1 hour and all of them women angry at a man they dont know and only one side of the story heard. I am happy I am not surrounded by all you angry ladies because I think you would have my nads crushed and my eyes clawed out...........yikes, let me get out of here.!!!!!
2006-06-19 17:28:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋