sometimes shes mad sometimes she not and she wants to be my friend again. what do i do?
2006-06-19 15:49:28 · 6 answers · asked by black _princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I guess I good question to ask would be: why is she mad? Is it something that you've done?
I had a friend for many years that was just like that. She would talk about me behind my back, break off the friendship, then come around and act like nothing had happened. Call me her best friend, etc. I felt so used by her. No person should treat another like that just b/c they can.
I don't talk to her anymore. And if I ever see her again, I will flat out ignore her.
Make some other friends! Find someone who is sincere and will stick around. I promise they're out there.
2006-06-19 15:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by Lenore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's unfair for her to treat you like this, she is messing you about, just as you would not put up with that in a relationship, you should not put up with it from her!
It is only because you are letting her do this that she keeps doing it, put your foot down, stop letting her take advantage of you, and tell her to take her **** elsewhere.
And then she'll probably realise what a wonderful friend you are and regret being such a pain.
2006-06-20 04:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by sumaspikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are afraid to get abandoned.. thinking that they could hold everything and control. They are in denial that they don't really have friends at all and keep someone to be their friends that really does not exist...
do you want to be friend of this person? good friends stays together ..good or bad..support each other and never put other down... make your choice now before you get stucked on this unhealthy relation..
2006-06-20 02:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by Ny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendships are supposed to be icing on the cake of life. They are supposed to fulfill you, make you happy, and give you love and support when you need it. A relationship that has you doubting yourself and causes you pain isn't a true friendship. Find true and loyal friends- trust me, they are out there.
2006-06-19 23:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've responded to similiar question a few minutes ago.
Tell her to fock off.
2006-06-19 22:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by carlosdavid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time she gets mad and says...i dont want to be friends...dont get ugly...just say calmly ...you know what ..i agree...lets not be friends anymore and walk away...give her a dose of her own medicine...
omg...cliche' coming..."with friends like that..who needs enemies?"
2006-06-19 23:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋