Because I have a soft voice people think i'm gay but i'm not.
2006-06-19 15:31:33 · 18 answers · asked by daniel l 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
chicks like gay guys, that should make it easier for you
2006-06-19 15:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by nep1293 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of, the right person will come at the right time, stop looking for.
Second turn your deffects into qualities, if I was you I'll just become friends with a whole bunch of girls, giving them the benefit of doubt if I'm gay or not, after that all you have to do is listen and listen and listen, never talk, just listen, from time to time if you have to talk, be very funny and entertaining, pretend you can read her palm and stuff like that, impress her with little tricks and at the end complaint about how you are a nice guy and how no girl ever looks at you. Touch her a lot, not in a pervert way but in a nice innocent way, hold her hand, hugh her everyday, that kind of crap. Remember always pretend that you don't care about this girl in "a relationship way" you only listen cause you're a good friend. And let the time do his work, the longest I give you without a girl is 3 months. Girls more than someone to make out with, want some one who listens..... but yeah, they want to make out too... BIG ADVICE: once you get the girlfriend pretend you don't care EVEN MORE, women really like to be ignored, if you're nice they'll get rid of you... AND WHATEVER YOU DO NEVER EVER EVER GET ATTACHED.
2006-06-19 15:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by mr.black 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fret. You just need the right advice. I suggest you be yourself around the girl and try to be nice and polite. See if you have anything in common and talk about that. Maybe you should try becoming friends before trying to become a couple. Don't expect her to like you right away. If you're yourself you'll be sure to get a girlfriend that likes you for who you are and not who you try or pretend to be. The relationship won't last if the girl falls for you when you don't even act like that. Don't go too fast either. A first date at a small cafe to get to know each other better or a simple, elegant dinner is a good choice. You won't get a new girlfriend on the first date but it's a good first step. Stay cool, calm, and coollected and you should know what you want in a girl besides looks. Beauty doesn't last forever!
2006-06-19 15:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have a soft voice doesn't mean people should assume you're gay. Secondly, since you want a girlfriend badly, you're not going to find one soon. If you're constantly looking, she's not going to appear. You have to be patient and let it flow. Go out, be more out going and social, and hopefully the timing's there and you'll be in a relationship.
2006-06-19 15:37:59 · answer #4 · answered by TuttiDolci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, getting chicks is just a matter of statistical probability, the bigger the sample size, the more accurate the forecast. Just ask every girl out that you want to and eventually you'll meet the right one. I am an expert at rejection, but I never quit trying, that's why and old guy like me still hangs with the hot, smooth skinned, perky nippled, young girls-that and I love girls with low self-esteem! Go Go Go
2006-06-26 14:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by The Burro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how old you are, your voice may change as you get older. But if it doesn't, you will still find a girl who cares for you. You just have to find other ways to dazzle the girls. Use your eyes...your sense of humor....and your personality to get them to notice you and once they do, your voice will not be an issue...Best of Luck!
2006-06-19 15:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally.. a soft voice wouldnt be a 100% turn off for me.
girls also like humor and a good time.. so.. maybe you should worry less about your voice and more on whether or not you're fun company.
2006-06-19 15:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the strong silent type! Or evealuate yourself to see if there are any other mannerisms you have that can be mistaken as feminine. If not, and you are secure in your masculinity, then just wait, and the right woman will accept you for who you are.
2006-06-19 15:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by mzstorm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to expect women to just make themselves your girlfriend.
Try introducing yourself to a girl you like and asking her out.
2006-06-19 15:35:33 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just look and dress extremely hott so the girls can't resist you. then they wont even care about your voice.
2006-06-19 15:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by TK #11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋