ok i still need some advice from a mom the reason why is becuase imy bf went to juvi and i feel that now is a good time to get to know his family better but i really want to talk to his mom but i dont know how i dont know what to say or where to start i need step by step advice andi know i can ask here but i jsut want to talk on my messnger with so please give your email address please thanks so much
2006-06-19 15:28:08 · 7 answers · asked by danielle 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i can give u an advice from here, call her and tell her that i wanna check about u all after ur son left to another country or tell her i wanna check on ur son cause he didnt call me for few days,it is gonna be a good start..but if u want the truth try to make it simple and call his mom and tell her that i wanna chat with u.
2006-06-19 15:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by sasa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK, I'm a mom and my advice is not what you want to hear. If this kid is in juvi, he is bad news and his family may not be that great either. You can do better. Much better. Find someone who obeys the law and has a chance at a decent future. You will look back at this as a turning point in your life if you can see the big picture.
2006-06-19 22:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now's not the time to get to know his family, it's time to realize you deserve someone better than a guy in juvi!!! If this is where he is now, where's he going to be in 10 years, and where would that leave you? Have enough respect for yourself to know you deserve better than that. Good luck
2006-06-19 22:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has enough on her plate, let her be. Also, she probably partially blames you, I mean he went to Juvi, theres a reason and did you enable him? Let that poor woman breath. She doesnt want to talk to you right now. This is just tough love, believe me I know. Not trying to be mean.
2006-06-19 22:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this kid is in juvi, why would you want to be with him. He's already messing up. Unless you are pregnant there is no reason to get to know his family. Move on.
2006-06-19 22:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking with his mom about what? Are you pregnant and you want to tell her? Uh, well, if the baby's father (her son) is in juvenile detention, are you really sure you want this boy and his family help raise your baby? What good influences could they possibly have to offer? It seems to me that the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. What kind of people are his parents??? If they raised him in such a way that he's in juvenile detention, I don't think I'd want them in my baby's life...
2006-06-20 11:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a mom I am a father. I am willing to guide you through what my experiences were. PSTUFF60@yahoo.com
2006-06-19 22:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋