i really like the guy but i dont know how to tell him?
2006-06-19 15:02:12 · 9 answers · asked by Brittany 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
Tell him something specific you like about him. " I think it's really nice that you help your friends with their homework." "That was a really good question you asked in class today; you started a great discussion. "
Try to compliment him on something other than the way he dresses or something that everyone notices about him. If you comment on something that isn't obvious he will realize you are paying enough attention to notice when he does something good.
Do that whenever you notice something good about him. That way you are only commenting on the specific situation and if he doesn't like you back he can accept the compliment and leave it at that. If he does like you he might take the hint and get interested in you. If you can't think of anything good that he does maybe you should think again about how much you like him.
2006-06-19 15:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by Lleh 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Remember the nike saying "just do it"? There is no way to make urself look foolish. Just tell him, and feel good about saying it. If he turns into a clown and trys to make you feel like a fool, then you just found out something important about him. He's a jerk!! And why would you continue to like a jerko? I am sure he won't do that tho, and maybe he'll surprise you and tell you something good. Give it a try, when the moments right.
2006-06-19 20:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by jack f 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don`t tell him straight, you chat to him and try to pick up on signs whether he likes you or not. Once you are sure he likes you then ask him, that way you don`t make a fool of yourself. If however it turns out he doesn`t fancy you then just don't ask him as you wouldn`t get him as a boyfriend anyway you haven`t lost anything.
2006-06-19 15:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by MARTIN B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't be making a fool of yourself if you tell him, even if he says he doesn't like you. It takes guts, and a lot of respect, to put yourself out like that. If he can't respect that, if he embarasses you, he ain't worth it. But he will definitely be flattered and impressed and will respect you no matter what happens if he's a good guy, especially if he likes you.
2006-06-19 15:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by teachingazteca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you should do is make communication contact with him. Just a simple Hello will do the trick. And secondly, just be yourself. Try not to be someone you are not. Guys really dig a sincere, honest female!
2006-06-19 15:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could have a nice converation with him and see if he likes you when he describes the type of girl he likes and if he maybe describes you in away then you say if i tell you some thing you promise not to laugh then thats when you tell him you like him then it wont seem as bad then he might say he likes you to!! Or you could just tell him and not care what he says
2006-06-19 15:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by cheridan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look him in the eye face on and tell him. Look confident and you will appear that way. No matter what his reply , if you are confident when you deliver the info, you will still walk out with your head high.
2006-06-19 15:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait, the situation will resolve itself. If he isn't totally thickheaded he will know, and the conversation will come along naturally. Why is everyone is such a hurry?
2006-06-19 15:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i start to get into a conversation with him them tell him hes the nicest funniest guy i have ever meet and say i really like you alot
2006-06-19 15:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by tikradurham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋