I've been hurt in so many ways so many times that anytime someone i care ab (including my bf) gets near me I'm scared to let myself trust them. I know you prob. wouldn't know how to help me but if you have anything to say that you think might help say it. Bc i'm donn't want to be this way. I'm scared to lose my bf, and all of my friends!!
2006-06-19 14:09:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
After having alot of people in your life let you down and hurt you, it is normal to have built a wall around yourself so as not to let anyone get so close as to hurt you again. I have been there big time. In time you will see that not everyone will hurt you and they don't deserve to be on the other side of that wall. No one wants to feel like they can't trust anyone again. Think about the people in your life that mean alot to you now. Give them a chance to get closer to you. You fear will go away alittle at a time. It could be done....
2006-06-19 16:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are hanging around the wrong type of people. Sit back and obserive the people you associate yourself with, and then think what kind of people do I really want to be associated with. Change this part of your life and it should improve. Make decisions for yourself. Do not follow what everyone else does. You know what you want. Find the type of crowd you want to be associated with, life will be easier. The drama and everything else will really ease out of your life.
2006-06-19 14:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u know he loves u then u should trust him i trust my bf even thou he can make mistakes he always makes it up and maeks me happy.
2006-06-19 14:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by Kayla D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋