everyone i was in the army with and everyone i went to high school with has a successful career, is married, is happy, and i'm just here... what did i do wrong? i hate this... i hate feeling like i'm NOTHING! i hate my life!!!
2006-06-19 14:00:22 · 9 answers · asked by Some Girl... 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I was in a relationship, and had a son who is now 2 and half years old. His father was an ***, and treated me like crap. He told me I was stupid, ugly, fat, and not worth his love. I left him when my son was only a month old, and ever since then I’ve been trying to get my life back on track. I just moved into my friend’s house, (we were in the army together), and I see how much different her life is from mine… all I want is to provide a GOOD life for my son and to be happy, but it seems that everything I do just doesn’t work. How do I change that? How do I make my life better, how do I become happy? That’s all I want… money, a nice car, or career don’t really matter, (they do a little) but I want to be HAPPY! I want my son to be happy… I don’t want him to hate me too…
2006-06-19 14:20:42 · update #1
Oh...boo hoo to you. Get over being envious and looking at what everyone else is doing or has done and do something for yourself for a change. you want in the army. Go. Have a blast. You want to get married. Find someone that will put up with your crap and marry you. Otherwise, just sit in front of your computer and cry like a child instead of taking action like an adult!
2006-06-19 14:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Then change it.
The army did not teach you to sit around feeling sorry for yourself.
You don't know what those other people's lives are really like?
They could really be miserable.
You have one shot. Make it good and have fun.
Never hate your life. Hate how you manage it and change it.
I read your blog and looked at your pictures.
It's "Sing like nobody is listening...."
And, you are beautiful with a beautiful child.
I am having trouble feeling sorry for you.
2006-06-19 21:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you, but I would guess you're focussing on all the bad things and forgetting the good things.
Start with:
I'm alive
Then move on to: I have the use of all my limbs! (That said, I hope you do...) And so on. I'm sure you think of other good things.
Happiness is a habit. It takes a while to form a habit.
2006-06-19 21:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by jarm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life isn't horrible, it's just that because you see other peopel adn compare your life to theirs. You see what they have and it makes you feel smaller in your mind. If you focus on the good things in your life then soon you will have a great life thta you had all along.
2006-06-19 21:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by perrovilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not nothing, u were in the army and u have a life, even if u hate it. suggestion: (ok, lame, but try it) take a walk. then u won't be "just here". u'll be in a new place with every step. discover something.
2006-06-19 21:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your life is not horrible it just seems that way until something else happens
remember that everything happens for a reason. maybe what is going to make you happy and succesful has not happened yet and its possible that you have to act right now on your intuition
2006-06-19 21:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by bluechaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then do something about it! If you don't reach for it, you're never going to grab it. In this case, complaining about your life on the Internet isn't getting anything done, so go do something about it!
2006-06-19 21:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a good man and marry him. Have children and raise them well.
2006-06-19 21:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them if they are truly happy,you probably havent found happiness,thats all,just because you have a career/children/marriage doesnt mean you are happy.
2006-06-19 21:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋