I have known this girl for about 5 months.....?

Question

I have known this girl for about 5 months. She’s very beautiful, nice, unselfish, compassionate, and very thoughtful. When I first met her I found out she was single I often wonder how it is possible for a beautiful person like her is single or why anyone isn’t trying to get at her. I ask her about her last relationship. She said the guy from her last relationship was being a jerk that’s why she broke up with him and that’s was like a year ago that she had broken up. When I ask her out she told me that she wasn’t ready yet. She asked me to wait till she ready. I told her that I would wait for her as long as she like but the thing is that I’ll be going to the Air Force in September. I told her that I’ll return for her if she was my g/f. If we going to star a relationship. I want to start pretty soon because I feel like I’m running out of time. Every time I ask her to go out for dinner or movie so that we can get to know each other better. She’s always busy with something and always has a migraine headache. I have been avoiding other girls that try to holla at me because I don’t want to hurt her or other girls when she ready to be my girl. I want to be faithful to her even though were not together yet. I guess I like a loser asking this question, huh? Is she hiding something? What should I do? Should I still wait?

Answer 1

This girl sounds great, but I think you should come right out and ask her if you are wasting your time by waiting for her to get over this break up from a year ago...sounds like she may be stringing you along and maybe wants the security of having someone be there when she feels like she wants to get serious...that 's not fair to you. Life's to short and there are plenty of wonderful gal's out there that would jump at a chance to meet a great guy. Get an answer and get on with your life. Hope you get an "honest" answer soon. As far as your Air Force enlistment....Best of Luck to You and God Speed. Take Care.

Answer 2

I think you're making a dumb move. You can't maintain a 4 month old relationship after you join the military. If you're not together already leave it alone.
I know a lot of people view relationships as a magical thing but it's not. If you're not there it's not going to work. It's easier for you to be faithful to her. You don't have as much random chance to hook up with a chick in the service. Believe me it's possible, but it won't necessarily fall into your lap. Just based on how infrequently you're placed in that situation it'll make you a bit uncomfortable and easier to turn a girl down. She's still in the normal world and it sounds like she doesn't want to be with you anyway.
Loving someone does not guarantee their fidelity. If you're not there it only makes it worse. Go find a woman when you have a normal life.

Answer 3

hhmmmm.

Well, I don't know her. I don't know what she thinks. why don't you ask her? But for me, as a girl who knows her guys about a year or two before going with them, I'm wondering if she is just really cautious like I am.

If a girl is beautiful, everybody and their dog is trying to hump her. It is actually quite unpleasant, but of course its also impossible to complain about it. All she can do is be careful and see if the guy in question is able to be patient and deep, or is just a selfish guy who is preoccupied with her appearance.

So I am sorry you have a deadline coming up! That's too bad for you. Because if you DO ask her what she thinks, she might think you are pressuring her, or kind of shallow. I'd say you should show her that you're not.

Answer 4

Are you positive she isn't seeing someone or doesn't like you. Maybe its just a nicer way to tell you that she doesn't like you and avoid you. Talk to her some more. She might think that ignorance is bliss and that is why she is doing this to you.

Answer 5

yes u should wait if u really and truely love her

Answer 6

no dnt wait.