i mean ok im only 14 i got a long life...maybe but what should i do im so scared sometimes out of no where i start crying when i think about dying and the life after u see i dont belive in heaven or hell so where does that leave me? many ppl in my family have died so thats why i've been thinkin about it so much i think i started thinking about death ever since i was 7 im still scared i dont know what to do i cant just ignore it
*if u cant say anything nice dont say anything at all*
2006-06-19 13:40:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
"i dont belive in heaven or hell so where does that leave me?" --- Dead. If you don't believe in heaven and hell then what are you afraid of? (personally I do, and my fear used to be that I'd burn in hell forever) But if you don't believe, then when you die that's it. You're taking a dirt nap. And all you need to worry about is living a good life. Make sure you live each day to it's fullest.
2006-06-19 13:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by fiestyredhead 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom or grandma or somebody you trust. Lots of people are afraid of dying. We are usually afraid of something we have never done before. God tells us there IS a heaven whether we believe it or not. So don't worry about that part. You have probably just been around a lot of death lately. Go visit the maternity ward in the hospital. Check out all the new babies. Did you know the hospitals need help in just holding and rocking the babies? Maybe you could do that. Sometimes when we are loaded down with troubles the easiest way to make them go away is to do things for others. Be a Candy Striper, volunteer at your library in the kids section. Surround yourself with life. You will feel better.
2006-06-19 14:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. Around your age, sometimes I would get to thinking about death and dying and I would get really scared. Terrified, even. But the best thing you can do is not think about you dying, or what will happen afterwards. What is important is that you be happy with your life you are living, and live it to the fullest. Have fun! Be happy! Don't worry about dying, because it's most likely a long ways off for you. Just enjoy your family, friends, and life you've been given. It's too short to waste thinking about dying, you know?
2006-06-19 13:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by calivane07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same. Still searching for answers. But take note that everyone dies, so everyone eventually has to go through this. It can't be avoided. Let's just hope that there is an after life.
And I agree with the other answer. Live a long fulling life then you will have no regrets.
2006-06-19 13:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by Video Pod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't believe in Heaven..you have no hope. Its natural to be scared of dying...But that is all the more reason to find out what comes after death. If this life is all there is then there is nothing, what hope do we have? I believe in Heaven..I believe in a better place where there is no sadness, pain and especially..no fear. Look into it...and I pray you find YOUR hope.
2006-06-19 13:47:32 · answer #5 · answered by justmeagain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not to doubt ur beliefs, but there is a Heaven and Hell, if your not saved do ur research 1st, then get urself saved, when you think of only heaven and its good thoughts, this will help ebb you tide of fearful thoughts. I used to be the same way, I have been afraid since I was ur age and I am 37 now....good luck on ur trip to fearless nights & days
2006-06-19 13:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by back2skewl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i was the same way when i was younger but has time goes on i learned to accept life for what it is we will make mistakes but remember that we are not perfect but we still have choices to make in how we live are life so do the right thing and pray to your higher power for knowlege & wisdom and understanding you are looking at life for what it is and you see the reality of it so just remember you also will live forever in a wonderful place so dont worry it will be find promise
2006-06-19 15:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by swoop2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is afraid of dying, dont worry about it, it is normal, just continue living life to its fullest dont look back and stay positive, i will pray for you, ask god to help you through it, it is a hard thing to get over. i am afraid of dying myself, u know? and i am 20 years old, and in the military, but u have to be brave sometimes. ;)
2006-06-26 11:35:26 · answer #8 · answered by Kyle W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry kid, but everybody dies. Time is the only variable. And, worrying about death will bring it on sooner. So stop it already, and go live the life you've got.
2006-06-19 14:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray
2006-06-19 13:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by prettylass217 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋