i found out my boyfriend has been talking to a 17 year old girl with intents to cheat. i'am breaking up with him.i don't know how he could treat me this way.this girl is seeing his brother.nice brother hey.anyways i have been a stay at home mom we have a 7 month old baby girl what do i do now.i guess this is what happens when you depend on someone financially.i'm moving out of his house i won't stay where i'm not wanted.please if anyone has any advice please help?
2006-06-19 13:33:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave and stay with a friend or family member for a while and take care of your baby. When you get the means and the money get a place of your own. I wish you the bst. Stay away from him. His brother should also know about this too. Try to get a job though as well and you may also want to apply for WIC and financial aid through social services. Hope this helps and you may also want to get on medicaid.
2006-06-19 13:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 8⤊ 2⤋
Jesus! This sounds bad (hey, sorry.. I shouldn't start off that way.) So are you l00% sure it is over? I mean you check the facts out real good? You said he had intentions of cheating is why I ask (and there is the kid involved..) Yeah and I couldn't agree more about the 'nice brother' (piece of ****, huh?) I know someone's gonna give you all this legal tango about 'filing something right away for child support' so I won't go there. (You always get that for advice.) Where ya gonna move? You got folks.. in with a girlfriend maybe? You need somebody to help with some of this. (Why can't HE move? Why you gotta?) This guy might just 'grow up' someday and come around (heck, he should.. to see his daughter..) Don't totally cut him off (don't think you can do it if you want 'em to pay c.s. anyway) o.k.?? Trust me. Down the road, you'll be glad you did. It's sort of common knowledge when little girls up w/absent fathers, they are more prone to develop troubles w/men.. (same thing goes for boys with absent mothers..) and hell I am not trying to scare you or anything.. I'm trying to be helpful, really!!! It's I was in the same boat and had a shitload of troubles with my daugher (now married, not a very good marriage.. I feel guilty as hell for not making more of an effort to get the kid's dad over there.. He was more interesting in fighting with me and I couldn't resist haggling with him.. I should have acted more mature for my daughter's sake.) Maybe someone can learn from the wrong I did tho (maybe you.. who knows..) well, I am sad over your situation.. truly.. I wish the best for you and your daughter, honey..
2006-06-19 20:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to get an attorney and seek child support. Even though you will no longer be together, he is still obligated to financially support his daughter.
I am proud of you for leaving that excuse-for-a-man in the dust. You were smart enough to realize that your daughter and you deserve better! You will find a much better man. Good luck!
2006-06-19 20:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by ilse72 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry about the boyfriend but the best thing is to leave his *** alone quickly you don't need to have that drama in your life you have a son to worry about life is too short to waste on him. move on and clue the brother in on the situation. move as far away as you can and don't take any excuses from him leave him alone and move forward with your life and never give a man tottal cotrol over ones life you have yourself and your little one to look out for remember that. i hope this helps
2006-06-19 20:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about the trouble - especially with a baby involved. Does the brother know about the girlfriend?
I'd confront both of them, but I'd talk to bro's g/f first.
I really am sorry about this. Maybe you picked the wrong brother. :(
~Maxie
2006-06-19 21:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by Maxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear of your troubles....you are heading in the right direction, by moving out and moving on is your next step....you will make it - your strength will pull you through. Turn to family and friends for help if possible
2006-06-19 20:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by MS L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are entitled to child support for your child that he fathered. Find an attorney and start a paternity action and get out!! Good luck.
2006-06-19 21:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by Legal_Beagle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so sad. :0( just love your baby get over him and find someone better there are lots of fish in the sea
2006-06-19 20:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by Can't get enough volleyball! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The road you have chosen is a rough one but the RIGHT one! You are far better off without this loser in your life. Good Luck!
2006-06-19 20:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by 4nik8er 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you to stay because of the baby,because every thing will still be the same,you are doing the right thing.but make sure you take him to court to take care of his baby.do that for your baby,not yourself!
2006-06-19 20:39:39 · answer #10 · answered by Tony R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋