we have talked about it and she really wants to do just that, but we dont know how to go about it,, we have been married 12 years and are solid about our relationship but have never done that,, girls any suggestions
2006-06-19 13:25:17 · 15 answers · asked by scottfamilytribe 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Go to Adultfriendfinder.com, there are lots of couples on their looking for threesomes. Some are swingers, some are first-times who want to spice things up just once for the experience.
Lots of marriages experiment. I would say evaluate your relationship first. If there is any judgment or jealousy, I would proceed with caution. Girl/Girl lovemaking is very passionate and if you're not comfortable or secure with yourself, you can make your wife's life a living hell by doubting her love for you. Good luck to you.
2006-06-19 13:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it ain't broke, don't **** it up. Seriously though, I've had a threesome and you cannot possibly be prepared for all the baggage that comes with having one. I think that there are couples that are secure enough in their relationships to handle any bump in the road (a.k.a. another person in the bedroom), but those couples are few and far between. If you want to spice up sex, rent some porn, try some role playing, bring some toys into the bedroom. I beg you though, do not bring another woman into it, chances are you'll regret it. Good luck.
2006-06-19 20:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by jenntwoenns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a real problem. Your wife is going to ruin your marriage if you two do this. If she is so solid, then why do something crazy like this? She just wants to cheat and you are eager to watch and participate so that makes you a cheater too. Seek counseling because this isn't normal for a 'solid' marriage.
2006-06-19 20:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by amissybell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try adultfriendfinder.com And have fun with it.... Make sure it is something you both want. You can also try swinger clubs. Those are fun and you never have to see the other again if you didn't like. Start with taking your wife to strip clubs to see if it gets a rise out of her.... And always do these things together...By the way where do you live?
2006-06-20 07:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by jackssailor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So whats the problem. That's every guys fantasy, but just make sure your relationship will not change. Now that i think about it you should not do it, shes obviously not satisfy with you, that's why she is looking for something else so she might leave you. But good luck. = )
2006-06-19 20:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your wife wants to have a 3 some with another girl go for it because maybe its her fantasy to see you with another girl while shes there but shell know your not cheating on her
2006-06-19 20:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Rio G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please take every ones advise and back out if this Idea! if your marriage is so solid then why she would suggest such a thing! Please think twice about this, IT really could destroy your marriage, I've heard of this happening with other people who said the same thing, and guess what it ruined their marriage!! so if you really want this marriage to survive on your part please try to discourage her against it!! best of luck my friend!!
2006-06-21 22:54:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the point of being married if you, her, or both of you will be having sex with other people.
I suggest if you want to have sex with others, you should be single... same goes for her.
2006-06-20 00:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by Dustin Lochart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite Jesus into your marriage . You will find a new dimension of supernatural love for each other . You won't want a third person
www.familylife.org
www.NeedHim.org
2006-06-19 20:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u want to?
if its a 3 some you kinda have a say in this dont u?
2006-06-19 20:52:35 · answer #10 · answered by erinbobarin12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋