i am pregnant am 14 should i tell my mom?

Question

i am in a bad place my boy friend and i have been
sleeping together and now i am pregnant what should i do (yes for shour i am)

Answer 1

You need to sit down and have a talk with your mum, because when your child is born you are going to need her help.

Be prepared for her to be upset and disappointed, but its only a natural reaction.

Your her baby too dont forget, and she'd want whats best for you.

I also had baby at a young age. Wasnt as young as 14. But I told my mother and she was very supportive.

My father on the other hand, because i know he is old fashion, he didnt find out til i was 6 months pregnant, but after my daughter was born all that changed.

But definetly tell your mother. She can be your best friend at times like these, cause she would have experience with this kinda thing.

Good luck sweetie!

Answer 2

I was young when I got pregnant, and I was scared to tell my mother too. I did tell her, over the phone (which i don't suggest--face to face is really needed) and she hung up on me. It was really rough for a little while, but my mom ended up accepting the situation, and she of course adores my son, who is now five. I was a little bit older than you....
There are alot of choices for you. You can keep your baby, put it up for adoption, etc., but the only one really equipped to help you make these decisions are the people who have known and loved you all your life. This computer question-answer thing is great, but to make real decisions, you need love and support.
If you do not find that with your mom, or other family members, then call your local crisis center, or talk to a school counselor-- but I bet that in time your family will be there for you.
The major thing is for you to take care of yourself, and your baby. You need medical care. You need someone to talk to, and you need to make decisions. You can't do all of that alone.
Tell your mom honey, and remember that there are choices. Being a parent is hard, but it is also beautiful. There is support out there. I thank God every day for my little boy. My life is so full and awesome now, but I never thought it would be when I first got pregnant. Good luck!!!

Answer 3

You need to tell your mom. I would want to know if it were my daughter so that I could help her through it. No one should be alone in a pregnancy, especially if it is your first and you are very young. You are basically a child yourself and are not equipped to make the kinds of decisions that you are going to have to make on your own. It may seem like it will be the hardest thing to do, but believe me you will feel much better after you do. I got pregnant at 18, and telling my mom was the best thing that I could have done.

Answer 4

What Im not understandning in todays society is why do teenagers want to toy with sex ecspeacially teenagers who are middle school aged? Look u are 14 not even old enough to get a job, unfortunatly honey you have to tell your mom, you are going to need her help, it just breaks my heart that you are 14 years old and one night has changed your entire life, I was 22 when i had my first child yea I was an adult but i couldnt go out clubbing with my friends anymore college had to be put on hold, I had to work two jobs it was alot of work being 22 I can only imagine how it would have been if I was 14. Kids should be kids and enjoy their teenage years they shouldnt have to be tied down taking care of babies, but now its time for you to grow up and take care of your responsibility and your first step is talking to your mother talking with the boyfriends parents and get to the doctor to get the care you and that baby will need. Im not downing you Its just heart breaking that you have your whole world ahead of you and now at 14 you will have to be an adult qucikly good luck to you contact me if you need someone to talk to.

Answer 5

Hello there. So yes you have a challenge ahead of you, but don't lose faith in yourself, I know you can stick in there! I hope your baby will be beautiful and healthy, and I hope you will be healthy. Well, as for telling your mom, it depends on you. Do you think she will be understanding? Nice about it? Or will she get angry and not help you? Unfortunately not all parents are wonderful, so I really can't say. But if I were you I would tell my mom because I trust her and she can help me through my preganancy. If you can't feel you can tell her go to an adult like a counsolor and find support from them. Do you go to church or a community thing? Go for help. You can find a way to get through this if your mom will not help you. Don't worry, because many kind adults will stick with you and fight for you and your baby.

Answer 6

You should definately tell your mom. This is big business here. No matter how long you are in trouble for your mom will be there for you. If you don't tell her soon she will eventuatlly find out with the size of your stomach changing. Make sure that your boyfriend discusses this with his parents too so that both of you will be on the safe side of things. Your parents will actually be alot of help because they have gone through this experience before.

Answer 7

OMG....you're 14! You're way too young to handle this on your own. You should really tell your mom about this. There's no one else to turn to but her. The sooner the better. Get it off your chest. You need the love and support from your mom! Plz, tell her right now as soon as you read this! There's no point in waiting, she'll notice eventually anyway...

Answer 8

Yes. It's scary but if you don't tell her and go to a doctor, you could be endangering yourself and your baby. Talk with your mom and go to your doctor ASAP. Good luck.
PS. I had one at 15, and he's 11 now. These things CAN work out good. Just start right by doing right by the baby straight from the start.

Answer 9

Well,that problem of yours is worse than mine.So I am gonna try to help ya.Ok?I think we are gonna be good friends,cause we both have the same age.Where are you from?I am from Albania.
What's your mom like?Is she rude or the nice kind of mom you can talk to?My mom is horrible.She doesn't even consider the idea that I can have a boyfriend.From how many months are you pregnant?

Answer 10

Tell your Mom. She will want to know. It may seem frightening right now and you may not think she'll understand, but trust me, she will. She will love you just the same. Remember that God doesn't make mistakes. Pray before you talk to her and ask God to give you the words and to be with you. Everything will be fine.

God bless and good luck,

Jai

There is no greater priviledge than to bring life into this world, only God gives you that opportunity.