is it ok for a black man to marry a white girl?

Answer 1

Love is not contingent on race and why not-as long as they truly love each other and can handle some assinine remarks here and there and give strength to each other sure its ok.

Answer 2

Not really. As if we think of our future generations, we may longer have a blue/blonde female as we would most probably live in a coffee coloured world. If diversity means wiping out a certain type of female then it cant be all that good. in years to come there may be campaigns to save the white female like that of the panda or whale. having said that it is really the matter for the two people concerned, so it is "ok" depending on our own cultural values. Here in England it seems that black men only want to date white women. I seldom see a black female / black male couple. I myself am married to an indian-asian women and have 2 kids with blonde hair blue eyes.

Answer 3

of course it is. depending on where you live, it might be more or less acceptable depending on culture or religious differences. many people from the older generations think it's not ok because you'll have mixed babies and people say that causes confusion for kids.

i'm a white 24-year-old girl and although it didn't work out with my son's father, my son is perfectly fine with being black and white.

marry the person you love, regardless of color. If someone has a problem with it they will either a)get over it in time or b) you might need to decide if you really want them in your life if they are not happy for you. good luck!

Answer 4

No, it is not!!! The only reason black guys get with white girls is because white girls buy them with money clothes, food, shelter etc. Go ahead girl be a fool you won't be the first one. Black women don't do this s***. A man has to come the correct way when dealing with a sister. And they know that!!!!

Answer 5

Its the 21st Century go right ahead. If you both love each other color should matter. Besides there are many multi-racial family now then back in the day. I for one am married to a white man and I am Hawaiian. So there you go and we have 2 beautiful children also.

Answer 6

Is it ok for a black woman to marry a white man?
Is it ok for an asian man to marry a hispanic woman?
Is it ok to marry anyone if you really don't love them enough to be with them for the long haul? Knowing that regardless of whatever you're mates race, color or creed, this is the only person you see yourself with sitting on your deck babysitting your grandkids. If you can't fanatasize about the future, then regardless of color, it shouldn't be ok to marry ANYONE!
However, don't forget that America stands for diversity but we are a nation of hypocrits. Be prepared for the stares, the hatred and the disrespect you will face from your family, friends and peers. Just make sure you love each other because if you don't "united we stand, divided we fall". Heck I'm black and so is my husband, we are just good looking separately but together we stop traffic. Men disrespect him by staring me down and women get attitudes because he is with me. Heck, he and I both have cousins who want to see us apart because we are just TOO awesome together. But we love each other. They can't stop that. And even better, we just won't let them steal our joy.
God bless you. I will keep you in my prayers. Just stay strong and be sure.

Answer 7

It's okay but it's not something I would do. I was brought up and taught not to mix races. I'm not prejudiced, but I just don't think it's for me. When I was 16, I dated a Mexican guy. My family treated me horribly. There is no way I could ever have a child through what I was put through. I have many friends that are different races, 2 cousins that are mixed that the rest of my family treat like crap. Like I said it's not something I would do, but for other people, I don't have a problem with it. People should do what makes them happy.

Answer 8

If he's a good black man....meaning a good husband then definately and to clarify the situation I have 2 daughters I'd rather see married to good black men rather than bad white men anyday.

Answer 9

if we lived in a world where there was no race and religon, we'd have no problems. I went through this myself. I find NO problems interracial or inter-religion marriges, but unfortunately other people do. My sig. other THOUGHT, he could handle it, but eventually he said "love is not enough" and we broke up. It's a sad reality. But make sure your mate is open minded and willing to "deal", and it should be fine. I guess my "mate" thought it was a bigger deal than I did, I believe that if our families love us, they will want us to be happy regardless or things such as color...Who cares what people think. I am a much stronger person, my ex was not. Make sure you are on the same page and willing to fight, be careful and strong. Love hurts.

Answer 10

Um yeah- I really think we need to get ovr all of the racism on the internet now. The internet is meant for people who have a general understanding of the "whatever floats your boat" rule. It is not my place to pass judgement on anyone, and I'll do as I please. If you can't handle interracial relationships, which I assume is why you are questioning it, then don't do it yourself. Leave other people alone. The majority of people out there need to GET A LIFE and stop trying to control other peoples' habits or predilections