I just want her to have her own style not copy mines sometimes I wish I never met her.
2006-06-19 13:13:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Imitation is the best form of flattery. Since she is so taken with your style go shopping with her and encourage her by selecting things you think she will like and compliment her by saying "this is so like you, and so classy or elegant". She will become more confident and you will have helped someone who really needs some self esteem. I know...my friend was the same way. We have now been friends for over a decade. Good luck!
2006-06-19 13:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by jodie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the mature thing is to accept that by copying your look she is actually passing you absolute flattery by wanting to be like you. Point out to her that you are flattered and then tell her that you want to help her find her "own" look for people to admire,, one that suits her in taste as well as her hair eyes personality and all,, then help her out.
You will both be happy and she will find you even that much more nice.
2006-06-19 13:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you know that is a compliment that she wants to dress like you. It's easy to feel resentment. What I would do is to help her figure out a style of her own, to develop it, subtlely so she doesn't think you're pushing it on her. Go clothes shopping with her and for things that might look good on her or you think might work for her body shape, say, "Hey why don't you try that on, I think it would look cute on you". She's trying to seek approval, and if you're giving her some positive feedback it might help her feel more confident on seeking out her own clothing style.
2006-06-19 13:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by chariot804 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously, she is still LOOKING for her own style.
Imitation is the highest form of flattery.
Be her friend and help her out.
Apparently, she likes your taste and style.
You know what you like..go girl
Have fun with life and your friends
Enjoy the moment--it won't last.
Your friend will find her own style.
2006-06-19 13:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by karen-morrison7@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go shopping with her and just pick and point out things you don't like or say your gonna buy and once she spends her money buying all that up go out n get yourself something CUTE! lol she's not gonna change though I mean maybe she just likes your style :)
2006-06-19 13:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by cmassaget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just admires you. If she is your friend maybe you could help her find a style of her own. Fiends are hard to come by.
2006-06-19 13:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 07:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, at first it was kinda flattering wasn't it? now, it is quite a problem. Maybe you should just tell your friend that they are annoying when they mimic you and if they don't stop it, you may consider being their friend.
2006-06-19 13:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her what you like. help her also with her appearance by suggesting what to wear and style to develop her personality too.
2006-06-19 13:36:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG
I hate that! My sister does that too me. I can't have anything without her running out and getting it.
Tell her to find her own look. It probably won't help tho...
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2006-06-19 13:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋