Have you had an abortion before?

Question

Hi, I was wondering what happened? How do you feel about abortion? If you had a second chance would you still do it? I don't mean to judge or make you feel bad, I'm mostly trying to understand how to help people advoid abortions... and to that I want to have some connection with those who have been hurt from it. I know it's hard, when people say harsh things, I'm sorry. I am very pro-life but I want to help everyone, how can I draw people together with out conflict to help save unborn babies, and help make other people stop making others feel bad... What are your experiences? Do people make you angry and hurt when they say it is murder? I don't feel it is that way because many people have different experiences, so we really can't put someone down, yet I feel the voiceless need to be protected also, because unborn babies are voiceless, how should we help pregnant women who want a way out? Thank you... and God Bless..

Answer 1

If you really want to help people then realize that there are lots of different reasons that people have to have abortions and it is never your decision. NEVER
I WAS RAPED several years ago. It was violent, brutal, and horrible. Then to make matters worse I found out I was carrying his baby. Would you recommend I carry his baby in my belly for nine months! Just cause you think it is better for the baby!!! Then I have to spend the rest of my life knowing that I have a child out there that I can't stand to look at. Back off my body!!!!!

What about when the mother may die if she carries the baby to term? What about children with severe deformations where the child may die during birth? Are you hear to tell me that the mother just has to go through nine months of carrying a possible dead baby? The government does not belong in the doctors office. PERIOD

I am sorry for all the caps and exclamation points. I am shaking just thinking about it. This is such a hard topic for me, still, years later. I know I will never be OK with that abortion, but I would never have been OK with carrying that baby to term either. There was no good choice, just a lesser of two evils.

Answer 2

No, I haven't had one I haven't been pregnant before. I waiting for the right person. I personally don't have anything against people who want to have abortion but, I think that taking a life is a little harsh. I mean a person could have the baby and then decide then if they'll keep or give it up for adoption. They might be sad then but at least they'll know that they're child is alive. And as will the child. Like Nick Cannon, his mother almost had an abortion when she was pregnant with him but, look at them now Nick is Rich and Famous. So really, I try not to think to much of the subject.

Answer 3

I had an abortion in 1982. I was 18 years old and just graduated from high school. It was so easy to get and almost everyone I new had an abortion. I really didn' t want to get one but I was so afraid to tell my parents. The day of hte procedure my friend took me and I started cryiing and shaking, but i went through with it. They said I was about 12 weeks.

Fast Forward twenty years and I'm pregnant with my son. I watched every week of inutero development, and I cannont beleive that someone would have preformed an abortion on a 12 week old fetus, let alone a one week old fetus. If I knew then what I know now. I would not have had one. I am now prolife.

Answer 4

I have had an abortion, and no I don't regret it. My boyfriend, now my husband and i knew it wasn't the right time, I had used drugs, and been emotionally unstable to bring a child in to my then chaotic life. I think it depends on the circumstances the drugs I used could cause serious damage to a fetus and We felt that it wouldn't be fair the child to suffer their whole life because of my mistakes. But i would definately tell women and men that it is not an easy out.

Answer 5

I have two kids & i'm 12 weeks pregnant. I am pro choice but, I never had to make that choice. I was a heroin addict for several years. During that addiction I thought once that I might have been pregnant "it was just a scare thou" if I had been I would have aborted that pregnancy. That child would have been screwed up and the pregnancy would not have carried anyway due to my heavy useage. I have a friend who got pregnant used the whole pregnancy. Her son was born BLIND and is retarded she gave him up. Yes, as mean as it sounds I think she was wrong in having that kid. He will never talk he will never be okay he suffers neadlessly for the SAKE of her being PRO-LIFE. He has no life she could bearly stand to see what she had done to him she gave him up at age 4months. Reasons like that are why it's not your choice. Yes its sad and yes it is killing but, often it is for the CHILDs own sake.

Answer 6

Let me give yo ua little taste of reality, when my sister was 14 she was raped by a family friend and she had an abortion. Not only do i think it was the best for her phisically but emotionally as well. As a woman now i know it would be hard to know that she had a chlid out there who was probably looking for her, and how do you explain that to an adopted child? Oh your father raped me and thats how you were conceived, or to look at that child and have to re live that horrible experiance? I do believe in the quality of life but sometimes we have to think about our own well being

Answer 7

OMG i had one as a teenager(15yrs)and it was the worst feeling in the world i was pregnant from my first love and after 11yrs i still talk with him and still love him but my stepsister took me to have it and discussed with me that being the age i was i couldnt get a job i wasnt in school he was in and out of jail and what was i gonna do on my own it was the hardest thing i ever had to do and to this day i regret it and think about what if i would have had the baby

Answer 8

I am an aborted fetus. I reassembled myself using spare motorcycle accident people parts. I am invincible.

If you're pro-life then it sounds like like you have more of an agena then a question.

Answer 9

couldn't you have waited til tommorrow to ask this? It is a lot like my question and now people think we're trying to start a controversy!!!! Leave the baby saving to me!!! lmfao

Answer 10

Holy right-wing propoganda...