NO surgery, condom or contraption
2006-06-19 13:06:28 · 34 answers · asked by sweetaste92 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
then dont have sex
2006-06-19 13:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by answer_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Birth Control Pills or by contraption you mean contraception. If you don't want surgery-Heavens no if anything cheaper and easier Medically for HIM to get Fixed, Contraception(Birth Control) nor does he wish to use a Condom then how in the world do you expect not to get pregnant??? To prevent pregnancy-most accurate are birth control pills, the morning after-but pharmacists can refuse to fill, Diaphragm-fitted by Doctor, and the not have sex. Note: Condoms are not a foolproof , reliable means to avoid getting pregnant-just one tiny hole and this can happen at the plant, in packing etc that you can't see and voila you're pregnant. If your boyfriend isn't going to take any responsibility in this the maybe you need a more mature unselfish boyfriend.
2006-06-19 13:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO CONDOM, NO SEX!!! And do NOT tell him just to "pull out before he cums" because that does not work. Men have precum, a liquid that come out before full ejaculation and the precum can contain sperm. Most men cannot feel the precum so he would not know exactly when to pull out. Get condoms or birth control. And don't use the I'm embarrassed excuse because that isn't good enough. Everyone thinks about sex, everyone does it, everyone will do it, and everyone knows what it is.
2006-06-19 18:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by roach46342 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO surgery, condom, or contraption - NO SEX! If your boyfriend isn't willing to be a responsible sexual partner, you shouldn't have sex with him. If you're not willing to be a responsible sexual partner, he shouldn't have sex with you.
And you don't need surgery to go on the pill, use a diaphragm, etc...but it sounds like what you're really saying is that you're too young to take responsability for this and you aren't willing to see a doctor.
2006-06-19 13:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by sdc_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're on the same boat as me honey. My boyfriend doesn't want me going on the pill, on the shot, we don't use condoms because we get caught up in the moment & He doesn't want me going through abortion or adoption either. I found out that the best thing to do is lay down the facts to him. Tell him straight up..... I don't want to get pregnant, It's either we use a condom or you suffer. If he gets mad, let him be. Ask him if he's willing to go through 9months of pain and give birth for you. You have to stand your ground or else you'll get run over. At the same time its kinda cute cuz they want you to get pregnant. But you don't want to so you have to show him whats up.
2006-06-19 17:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your going to have to lay down the law and tell him that if he doesnt wear a condom, that you will fall pregnant.
But strongly consider going on the pill or something if you feel strongly about not falling pregnant.
Remember it's your body thats going to be stretched, bloated and aching if he doesnt start wrapping his tool.
So tell him straight.. dont let him walk all over you.
No condom, or No sex.
2006-06-19 13:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had boyfriends just like that and well the only thing i thought of when i was in this situation was no glove no love no rubba no lova and they will have to use a condom if they want you bad enough. stick to what u know is best and dont let no punk try to make u have sex unprotected cause pregnancy is a biotch!
2006-06-19 14:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by cutie_pie1210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can get the pill which you have to take every day, or even easier, get the patch. it's birth control that you just stick a patch on either your stomach, butt or shoulder. you change it once a week and the 4th week you don't wear one at all and you get your period. it's very easy, you can get a prescription from your doctor or ob/gyn. i thought it was really easy, but i just got an iud which you don't have to change or do anything with for 5-10 years (depending on which one you get) and once it's in you can't feel it and neither can your boyfriend.
keep in mind that you have to do SOMETHING....if you ignore it and have sex you will very likely get pregnant. talk to your doctor about all the choices that are available to you. good luck!
2006-06-19 13:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No glovin, no lovin! And don't buy this pulling out stuff either, you can still get pregnant.
Sweetheart, if you continue to have sex as your boyfriend instructs, then you will have not only the possibility of getting pregnant but you may contract a sexually transmitted disease (STD) too. If he's not willing to protect, therefore, you reject.
Be blessed.
2006-06-19 16:39:37 · answer #9 · answered by Decent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are just trying to avoid pregnancy, then take birth control pills
but that is not your greatest concern, you dont want to get sexual transmitted disease, and the condom is the best thing at preventing those (i.e. aids, hep b, syphillis, herpes, genital warts, pubic lice) it is 99.9% effective! how much better can you get?
so just tell your bf...
NO GLOVE NO LOVE
that should work
2006-06-19 16:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by rainbow_sherbert_48 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then tell your bf you have a condom that doesn't want to use your bf.
No other options. Except abstinence.
2006-06-19 13:09:48 · answer #11 · answered by theMeganEffect 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋