How to make a man last longer?

Question

When my husband and I got together, he made love to me and lasted forever now he only last about 1/4 of the time.... HELP I want more time.. What to do?

Answer 1

Here are a couple of things that needs to be done first:

1. Communicate to your partner that you would like to see if he can last longer. If he is open to it then you are on the road to happy sex for you.

2. Practice oral sex on him and tell him to tell you when he is close. When he is close...hold his penis firmly to keep him from climaxing. Once he relaxes start again...and do the same thing a couple of times...when *you* finally let him orgasm...it will be powerful and he will understand why holding back is better. Do this a couple times so you can begin teach him.

3. Buy a ********. He may not like it because it isn't too comfy but psychologically it may help him want to learn how to do it on his own.

4. During sex...focus on him...and make demands, "Don't you dare ***. Hold it." Most of the time they will.

5. Change positions when he is close...it will help him retain his erection and not climax .

6. Ask him to think about something else.

5. Praise him when he does hold out longer. :)

Good Luck!

PS: If he is still having problems it may physical or psychological. Many men are forced to climax quicker...to not get caught to him to relax. Or get him check by a doctor or sex therapist

K

Answer 2

He may have a medical condition, and should see his doctor.
If not, and he is just too excited to be with you, then I suggest that you masturbate him before hand. If he has orgasmed shortly before you make love, he won't be so fast the next time.
He needs to be more willing to hold off, it can be done, stopping any motions, holdind his erection tight for example.
Just try anything and everything, if he's willing, you should find out, what will work the best for you both.

Answer 3

There are creams that a guy puts on his unit before sex that make him last longer. Essentially it numbs it out a bit - wears off after a little but it will surely make him last longer. I forget the names of the products but they are called things like "Staying Power Cream" or "Extend" (I think). Check in larger drug stores near condoms, or buy online at a sex store.

Answer 4

I like to play with and tease my husband and make him really turned on and hard. He loves it and loves alot of foreplay and man the more I tease the longer he goes lol.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

I have found if he does come to quickly, before he starts to become flacid I immediatley perform oral sex on him, and when he becomes errect he last so much longer.

Answer 7

introduce something in hes asss, a carrot, will be enough