My wife is bi. She wants to have sex with a friend of ours and me at the same time.. Is this cool or what?
2006-06-19 12:51:04 · 17 answers · asked by jackmacaw 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It sounds like she might soon say BI-BI!
2006-06-19 12:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by caitie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ranjer is correct. .... and i'd like to add
the 3 of you need to talk about it FIRST.
and if the friend has a 'friend' then
the FOUR of you need to talk about it.
honest communication - before AND after is essential.
search your heart to make sure you do not have a HIDDEN agenda and your wife should do the same. other than that.
it's a truely wonderful experience.
personally, i think alcohol
you can always celebrate afterwards in the afterglow. jessica ;-p
2006-06-19 13:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by bi2unicorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure your marriage is strong enough to withstand a third in your bed, and try not to pay too much attention to the other woman. YOU focus on your wife, let the girls enjoy each other when you need a break ( and you will ), and be ready to reassure your wife over and over after the fact that she's the only women you're in love with. Enjoy, but proceed with extreme caution.
2006-06-19 13:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having two women at the same time is real tempting. It's also every straight mans dream. Let me tell you though. If you love your wife, don't do it. It will only cause problems down the line.
2006-06-19 13:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by lizzardkingone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the record, not all bi's are interested in threesomes. There are a large number that are monogamous. Do whatever is comfortable for you.
2006-06-19 14:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by michellesm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have it made. My husband has joined me with girlfriends numerous times. He thinks its the greatest thing. For those of you saying your marriage is over soon (we have been married for 12 years and this has been going on since day 1).
2006-06-19 16:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by marknliz_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could cause problems later down the line. It sounds cool now but it wont be later on. Your giving her permission to cheat on you even if thats okay now later on she may not ask you if it is okay. It'll cause problems. What if she leaves you for someone else? You'll regret it im telling you.
2006-06-19 12:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by shanayie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know girls that have had sex with another girl and a guy at the same time and they're not bi. They just want to please their man.
But that is pretty awesome haha
2006-06-19 12:57:59 · answer #8 · answered by sedated.groupie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never and I mean NEVER have a threesome with friends. It could totally "F" up the friendship & the marriage. It's waaaaaaaaay to close for comfort. If you're going to have a threesome, have one with someone you not "that" close with. Good Luck.
2006-06-19 13:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just my opinion...
If a person wants to have sex with others, there is no need for marriage. Adultery is wrong no matter what your sexual orientation is.
2006-06-19 13:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by Dustin Lochart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋