what are the main tips in arousing a women?

Question

How can a pair of hands arouse a women sexually? Please can i only have women answer

Answer 1

Every woman is different. Every person is different. There is no secret thing that works with every woman! The reason why is complex, but involves nature and upbringing, religion, culture, as well as the physical woman herself. It is easier to forget all about 'golden rules' for arousal to be perfectly frank.

I know that doesn't help you much. But rest assured that your chances of arousing a women is greatly increased if she's 'into you' already -- in which case almost anything you do will be taken by her in that vein.

The fun is actually in the trial and error of it all -- you are SUPPOSED to try something, and be attentive to her reaction (and remember it), then try something else and compare mental notes -- eventually you will be playing her like a musical instrument!!

But a word of caution -- a lot depends on her mood and the general vibe, something that worked last night, might not always be guaranteed to work anytime and place.

So don't get too hung up on the subject -- you have equal rights too! What a lot of men forget all about is that sometimes giving pleasure is pleasure in itself. Women can get aroused by getting YOU aroused.

Enjoy... and I hope this helps you in somehow!

Answer 2

I think the best thing to do is first ask the woman what turns her on sexually. Most women do not mind this question if they are in a relationship with the man, actually it will probably flatter them that you even want to know. Every woman is different and will find different things arousing, A nice slow massage works nicely..

Answer 3

Your hands should be soft. If you work with your hands, you should have a manicure done or soak your hands to soften them. You will probably not get it right on the first try but test different parts of the body. If the woman is lying there naked, on her stomach per say, gently rub her back. You don't have to start at the shoulders, you just have to be gentle. If you feel tension in her shoulds, apply more pressure there. From there you have to monitor her body language. Use your fingertips instead of your entire hand to trace patterns over her body. But in the end, it just takes some gentle, elongated motions and your woman will really appreciate it.

Answer 4

BE GENTLE and take your time with her.

Touch her how you want to be touched, and listen to her. Do not go straight to the areas that you think will do it but try little touches on her legs, arms or face.

The brain is the largest sexual organ and stimulating that is a good way forward. Teasing and telling her what you would like to do to her is a big turn on without any touches.

Compliment her too, do not be afraid to tell her how she looks, feels and smells (if she wears perfume) and tell her how she makes you feel. But, think about what you will say, don't just blurt out what comes into your mind reword it before you say it.

Good luck, god bless

Answer 5

forget firstly about going straight in there make her feel she's beautiful and wanted first trust me it's the quickest and more effective way if she doesn't feel comfortable you aint getting any
oh yeah i know it sounds amazing and a bit like folklore but money doesn't make women wanna have sex (and remember eye-contact, not too much though or she'll think you are a physcopath) but a fool proof thing is just lightly run your hand over neck and ears and again little is more good luck

Answer 6

Actually you left out another thing to make it complete, the Tougue. When on hand is masseging the hair, the other is finger fu cking her and the tougue is on the nipple, Oh boy you can never go wrong, before you know it she would have cu m.

Answer 7

if you dont have a toy then while you're movin ur finger/fingers in an out use ur palm and rub ur cli+....it doesnt take long to get you THERE and is super strong now with a toy there are plenty of methods you can use....jus play and see whats best for you good luck ;)

Answer 8

Best way to arouse a woman........?


Be Johnny Depp...............phwarrr
or Brad Pitt.................hmmm





or learn where the frickin' clitoris is for gawd's sake!!!




Why is it that most men know more about another man's metatarsal than they do about......... anything???

Answer 9

For starters, you can take your finger tips gently, and slowly rub it all over a woman's body. Also you can gently massage her nipple, or stimulate the clitoris.

Answer 10

How old are you.. Every women is different.. For me it is my nipples.. I love to have them touched, squzeed. sucked.. but for many women it is different.. it could be their neck, their ears, their thighs.. What a man has to do is take enough time to figure out what a women loves.. good luck!