i've been in the hospital for a couple of months because i had to have knee surgery and it all went wrong...well now i'm much better and the scar is almost completly gone. i've been swimming alot because its the only excersize i can do right now that won't injure my knee. i've been at the beach alot getting used to wearing bikinis instead of hospital gowns. my friends say i've changed...for the worse. they often say i enjoy to much male company, and that i like showing my body off. yea ...i get real deffensive, what do they expect i've spent months in damn hospital gowns!! how do i talk to them about this, it really pisses me off!!!!?????
2006-06-19 12:23:47 · 5 answers · asked by Katie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be honest with them - tell them that you were cooped up in a hospital for months and that you are enjoying being able to go out to the beach, talk to guys, etc. They may or may not understand you - but at least you were honest with them, what they do with it is their business.
2006-06-19 12:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are your "friends"? Wow, how compassionate of them. I'm glad you are on the mend. If you want to wear bikinis, go for it. They must be jealous of you! True friends don't put you down like that. Now, I can understand you wanting to show off your body, and liking the attention of men--just watch out that you aren't getting the wrong kind of attention. Maybe they are worried about that for you. Y'all need to learn to communicate better.
2006-06-19 21:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by Waferette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that they're just jelous cus they dont have your body, but if they do tell them to join you in swimming or something so they can show off they body also.tell them that you really need to get that exercice and tht you're not trying to show off you body.try spending more time on them but if they start acting bitchy juts walk away and start making new friends.i know making new friends is hard but if your frieds dont like you for who you are and how you are then i guees thats the best choise.
2006-06-19 19:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by ◄ZΨΦИ► 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're just intimidated because they feel like you're leaving them behind. They feel like you're starting to do something that they don't feel ready to do maybe. Make sure you're not being too focused on guys and ignoring them when they're around, because that's kind of rude. But at the same time tell them you're not trying to dis them, just having fun.
2006-06-19 19:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by daisy519 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are jealous.Find real friends.
2006-06-19 19:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋