How come people who have sex these days are so dumb!! First off women get so pissed when men run away when they get pregnant but its because men don't want to have kids so young...And Men are stupid because they don't wanna use condoms but they have no real intentions of being responsible...how come people don't think about this stuff in advance!?? I work at a hospital and see Countless single moms who cry and cry because their boyfriends are gone...but who do we hold responsible...both of em? Women how come you don't force men to protect themselves?? You have the power to say no! And men! Stop ruining lives! There are too many dead beat dads out there....Im just so sick of seeing this everyday...why won't people wake up?
2006-06-19 12:02:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I totally agree with you. Its sad how many people are having babies that aren't ready for it. And how many babies grow up without both parents. I feel very proud to say that I was married before I had my kids.
2006-06-19 12:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by ravinskye 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You brought up a good point. I am 20 with 2 babies but i'm not a single momma. I think a lot of it is that girls today will sleep with just about anyone. They seem to only think about the present instead of the future. If I had even a small thought that my girls' father would run if I got pregnant, I would NOT have even slept with him. I was on birth control with both my kids so it's not like becoming pregnant was something that we had planned. We were just trying to have less of a chance with me getting pregnant. Obviously if you're having sex you're taking that chance. But there are so many young girls I see that whine and cry because their child's father leave them when they become pregnant. Do you know how many girls I now that are single moms? I have a friend thats a single mom. Her son's father has 4 other kids by 4 other differnet women. What gives her the right to cry about being single. Did she not see herself being a single mom? Can women not see that coming. I mean come on, a guy already has 3 kids with 3 different women, he didnt stay with any of them. What do these women think they have that makes them so special? I'm not bashing on single mom's but I totally agree with oyu. A lot of them are just plain stupid when it comes to commom sense. Do you think I would have been sleeping with my fiance if he already had 2 or 3 kids that each had a different mother? Hell no. I think if you are intersted in a guy that is a deadbeat dad, you should run the other way. If not, it's your own fault for getting pregnant in the first place. I think a lot of the reasons that young girls are becoming sinlge moms is partly due to their parents. Now my parents monitered me when I was younger. I decided to move out when I was 17 and it was my decision. My parents never once helped me with my children. Thats what my fiance and I are suppossed to do. A lot of these parents sit there and let their son/daughter stay overnight with their lover as early as 14. Those parents should be slapped. So I don't think you can just blame the mom and dad of the child, the grandparents are at fault too. They're at fault for not teaching their kids right from wrong.
2006-06-19 19:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I agree with most of what you said, the statement "Men, Stop ruining lives" should be reconsidered...Think of this...The thought of a "Romantic interlude" usually includes drinks of some kind (even if a bottle of wine), many men & women go to bars & clubs in hopes of finding a sex partner, women continue to drink (though they think just partying is ok) even when pregnant...Want to look at "ruining lives"? What about FAS/D = "Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder / Fetal Alcohol Syndrome? This is the #1 leading birth defect (Organic Brain Damage directly due to exposing unborn children to alcohol), #1 cause of Mental Retardation, #1 cause of Mental Disorders and a whole array of other #1 effects...
2006-06-19 19:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you and do think that today we think as having sex like we would hugging a person. It doesn't seem to matter to a lot of younger people that it is difficult to become a single parent. But as I do understand your frustrations, if you don't like the situation that you are in may I suggest that you try to educate safe sex to your younger patience.
2006-06-19 19:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by COURTNEY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder the same thing. I can understand kids being stupid (I don't excuse them I just understand it) but some of these people are adults!
2006-06-19 19:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by AlongthePemi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thanks for your tip:) I am also a mum a lucky one also got pregnant and not planned but for us everything worked out great u know a happy family. and to answer to ur question: egoism
2006-06-20 12:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by LINDA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like abstinance would be the best solution for all of those problems.
2006-06-19 19:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by pstod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel exactly the same way! i feel bad for some women i know.. but its still partially their fault.
2006-06-19 19:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by Eileen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the way it is nowadays. and there's nothing u me or anyone else can do about it.
2006-06-19 19:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋