he gos out to smoke takes a ride around the block same times. acting diff-blames me for everything lately.he don't like me at his job but he sure gos there when he is not working i know i got to be strong and keep my self up.not working 7 mo.angry w/me.he is just not happy.what do i do check on him does this make me look crazy and love me less we had many many god yrs to throw away oh god
2006-06-19 12:01:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to talk to him about how you feel and find out how he feels. His change in attitude means something is wrong with him. If you can't talk or work things out, then you should get into marriage counseling as soon as you can. You have some problems in your marriage - and they need to be dealt with so you can continue to have a happy, functional marriage.
2006-06-19 12:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going through the mid-life crisis. He is feeling his age and doesn't want to get old. He probably has some odd requests and asks for some appreciation. Keep him close, go to counseling together if he doesn't go you go alone. If he argues and is in denial about everything he has a real problem. He is losing you. He'd better wake up.
2006-06-19 12:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by Snuffy Smith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but he may be seeing or talking with some one else. Keep him on a short leash and pay attention to what ever you feel is souspisous. You may catch him.
2006-06-19 12:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby, this doesn't sound good at all. first, you need to give " we need a talk" speech. lay it out; tell him exactly what you're not happy about. if he's going to push it aside, then contact a marriage counselor. but the botom line is that he'd cheated or going to cheat on you. sorry baby girl.
2006-06-19 12:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will make you crazy. Back off, give him some room...If you go digging for information make sure you are prepared for what you find, if you find anything at all. Good luck
2006-06-19 12:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yall need to reignite the flames of love again and rebuild your love and trust in one another. Sit down together and pray for it.
2006-06-19 12:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pastors will usually give free marriage counselling if you can't afford a counsellor.
2006-06-19 12:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by daisy519 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to counceling or therapy it will help to sort out the distance that is growing between you.. talk..... listen.... listen..... and talk.. do not go to bed at night mad... or argue before bedtime... make every day a new beginnig to start fresh and be strong.
2006-06-19 12:08:13 · answer #8 · answered by gg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back to school and take an english class together.
2006-06-19 12:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by lowIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many broken sentences. Cannot fathom what your problem is.
2006-06-19 12:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋