why is it so hard!!!?

Question

my twins sis has it all!! it is so esey for her to make friend but not for me i mean we both have blond hair and blue eyes some time u can't tell us apart it is true but for her she is pritty populer and has all the boys drolling how can that be i mean she is 17 and wieghts 81 pounds i want to look and act like that to but it is so hard she all ways tells me ( u rether born with it or not) and she said i was not born with it and she is!!! wal she is making a name for herself i am just being me i mean she REALLY HAS IT ALL. the right look,clothes , atatod,ect can u help me become that are something!!

Answer 1

I have heard of many twins being upset that they are too much alike. I would rejoice in the fact that you are two very different people. If you were just like your sister, you wouldn't be happy either. Be happy with yourself and give it time before you decide to categorize yourself with any one particular style.

Answer 2

Yo Katie--sounds like you're living under the shadow of your sister...But it also sounds to me like you still have a good head on your shoulders...Makes me a little upset though, that your sister has decided to take the path of being down on you (I have it --you don't)---that is more than a little harsh---I catch in here that you seem to think an awful lot of sis even with the things she is evidently doing to you--that shows me a very sweet spirit and a good heart and that counts for an awful lot---there is hardly any way someone can help you though in here at Y_A--just not enough space or dialog ---these issues you have about popularity and being able to attract the guys and all are very achievable goals--I work with models as a certified model consultant and have for a long time and we style their look and groom their overall appearance for the profession all the time--this could be done with you as well if you were willing to take the incentive and let me know what it is first and foremost that you think you need to work on---the look---the confidence--the shyness---you could etag me be clicking on my icon and then on the email link--email me and let me know what you would like to work on and I'll take a little time to try and walk you through to something better for yourself--I don't make this offer often at all but this time I'll try to help

Answer 3

If your her twin and she has it all, you can't be too far off from having close to it all. And if it was the other way around would you want her to be like you? It's better to be different, you'll find out eventually, sooner or later you'll have things that she will desire as much, so just relax and enjoy yourself... High School is NO indication about the real world, and what your future holds. In these senarios it's always where the one person has it all when they are young, and the other gets it all later... Whatever! don't you have some homework to do?

Answer 4

I think she is being mean and you shouldn't listen to her. If she was born with it, so were you. You're twins, remember. I think you should get yourself a totally different identity. Dress differently, color your hair a different shade and make new friends. Ignore her and her friends. Join some clubs or a church group. Learn to play an instument or take up a sport or hobby. You are an individual. If you are going to college don't go to the same one. You need to build up your self confidence. You may be a twin, but you are one of a kind.

Answer 5

this is very common in twins, One is usually more out going then the other and appeals to other people more than the other. Just be yourself and don't look into anymore. Your sister might seem like everything is going really good for her but she will be pushed into more pressure situations then you because of her popularity. I date a twin right now who was alway's the less popular one in high school, and I can not stand her sister. The people who really matter to you will alway's celebrate you for being yourself and not who your sister is.

Answer 6

be yourself........ and don't hate ur sister.... later in life u'll regret it..... i see people like uncles and thier sis's and my parents and they sometimes wish they didn't hate each other when ur older........ and don't listen to ur sister... u just have to find a look thats good for u! and i bet those guys that drool over her are pathetic 2-timing jerks! and u know waht alot of people want to be poular but more people hate the popular ppl....... u don't want people to hate u and be a b*tch to u do u? i hoped i help but i don't have twin so i can't say i expercienced that..... srry i hoped i helped a little

Answer 7

First of all you need to be worried about getting an education maybe she's smarter you don't even have enough sense to use the spell check. Stop worrying about her and focus on you and make a name for yourself. EDUCATE & LOVE YOURSELF first.

Answer 8

just be your self dont try to be your sis or u will look like a poser try out new things and find sumthing that makes u comfortable about your self and stop comparing your self against your sis

Answer 9

you think she has it all but does she really?? You just continue to be youself..and quit trying ot be someone you aren't so that you can actually concentrate on who you really are.. have your own attitude..ifyou don't like yourself what would you want to change for yourself what don't you like about yourself.. you shouldn't try to impress everyone.. after schools done with it wont matter anymore so main thing be who you are not someone else..

Answer 10

Hunny its not the way you look.Even fat chicks can get a guy.Its Confidence!Know you are somebody(cause you are).Don't compair yourself to your sis.You may be twins but you are two different people. Peace!