pleez help!?

Question

ok, i get the whole idea, but wut happens wen u have sex? ill flat out say it: im a virgin and im clueless as to wut happens! dont just say, ull learn or n e crap like that! i want to know. pleeez tell me! and wuts the whole deal ab intercourse? there r a lot of questions i have and if u dont mind id like to get some detailed answers!

Answer 1

you need to ask your Mom these questions.....not computer people...

Answer 2

well first of all don't believe every single answer you get on this one but have you tried watching movies? but anyways you asked so......here is the "scientific" explanation.....during intercourse the penis becomes erected after arousal. Then, the penis is inserted into the vagina which can also stimulate the clitoris (a part of the external vagina). Sex can last anywhere from 5 minutes to 5 hours depending on the stamina of the participants. After enough stimulation both the man and woman can experience orgasms. The woman secrets a lubricant while the man ejaculates semen. So this in turn, is how a baby is conceived (just a little extra) but if this didn't answer everything for you then u might want to check out a website for confused young people ;-)

Answer 3

The first time is not so great. It kind of hurts and if your young, as I assume, the guy will take about 2 minutes to be done. NUMBER 1..........if you decide to go and do it, USE BIRTH CONTROL............ it's easy to purchase rubbers, do NOT believe him if he says he is "allergic, can't use them, etc ".. he is lieing. You CAN get pregant on your first time. By the way, once you get older, you will see that sex only means something when you have true love. If you sleep with someone, just for the sake of doing it.. you will find yourself having no selp respect and guys will only use you.. they will not respect you. It takes a long time to get used to someone's else's body and know what each likes and does not like, so I strongly recommend being in love and knowing the other person will be there for you for a long time ( if not forever ) before you do anything you will regret. And remember, it takes about 3 seconds to get pregant and it takes 18 years to raise a child.

Answer 4

The first time you have sex it is awkward and embarassing, especially if you have sex with someone who is also a virgin. It can be a little painful but not unbearable, and make sure you use protection not to be preachy or anything but it's just dumb not to. There that is all I can tell you, it's not a scary thing as long as you do it with someone you love & trust.

Answer 5

honey, there are a lot of things that you need to know and you dont need to know.
first learn about the safe sex, and dont learn about the bad part of the sex, like anal sex. first try to learn how to love people with open mind and view. loving some one does not mean you just love them because they have money or they are cute. personality and morality are important.
having sex for fun is too early for you. get some education from books or teenagers website. check these eite and if you need more send me a message nad i help you more.

http://www.teenmag.com/
http://kidshealth.org/teen/
http://www.teengrowth.com/

good luck.

Answer 6

This is really not the place you want to ask such questions, especially since you are a minor and anyone being over eighteen sharing elicit info in a public forum would have to be a complete idiot. Sooooo....ask your parents, or your school councelor or your aunt.

Answer 7

ok u want to know about sex? well the first few times hurt.... sex is great IF u r in love w/ the person.... this is something u don't just want to give away..... i had sex at a really early age... (14) yeah i wish i did not do that then but that is in the past...... so there is sooo many positions... here r a few ways missionary,doggystyle,girl on top,ect..... well i really hope u wait... u don't want to get pregnant or and STD.... i got p/g at 16...... PLEASE WAIT..........

Answer 8

yes..but if your under 12-14..your a bit young on thinking about that..cause if you don't know you could end up having a baby and then getting kicked out of your home trying to look after it and raise it on your own..be careful..thats not a life to go by in wanting to know all about sex..it can be unsafe if your not careful

Answer 9

Ask an adult--like the nurse in your school. You can get a lot of wrong information from people who don't know what they're talking about and you can end up in a lot of trouble.

Answer 10

im not going into it telling you detailed answers but git informed about sex like the library or something and be careful or you will be really sorry i know ive heard about younger kids having sex an d noing nothing about it because adults wont tell them its true kids are having sex i heard it on the tube

Answer 11

okay first off you should be asking your parents but since you haven't i guess I'll tell you. when you have sex a man inserts his penis into your vagina and since your a virgin your hymen will break your hymen is a thin strip of cells inside of your vagina, but the man will proceed to move his penis in and out of your vagina not fully removing it though and he will do this until he ejaculates. now since you are young you should wait to even have sex until your married cause there are to many diseases out here, but if you do decide to have sex be safe use a condom and you need to definitely find some adult you trust to talk to.