its just one of those little fights that makes relationships hard.
2006-06-19 10:39:25 · 8 answers · asked by Jason D 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Relationships are hard work. Jealousy and fights are just one of those things that come along with them. And they are so hard to understand because all people are different. If all relationships were the same wouldn't you just stay with the first person you meet? Different people react to things differently. Communication is the best thing for any relationship to work. Talk it out.
2006-06-19 10:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by Hula Girl 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Mainly because jealousy is misused in a relationship. one or both partners uses jealousy to gauge the other partners involvement. to see how much the other one cares, if they perform a jealous inducing act and watch the other partners response, they can tell how much feelings the other partner has toward them. it's a game of sorts. to intentionally induce jealousy by flirting with someone or some such act only weakens the realtionship. it is deceit and love has no room for deceit. jealousy attacks the security of a relationship. if you are constantly attacking the other persons security base, the will not feel secure in a relationship and will start to look for something more comfortable and secure.
It is usually the insecure person that creates the jealous enviroment. they are insecure as to the status of the relationship.
They feel they need to test it and get feedback. the more they test it, the weaker it gets. it's not only guys that get jealous, some women have fits of jealousy. it is easier for women to make men jealous ,
2006-06-19 18:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
building a relationship is really hard! there are many things to consider, you have to adjust and know each others weaknesses.
you need to work hard for it, learn what is wrong and right.
there are so many people out there think loving each other is enough but my dear in order to have a "strong relationship" both of you need to have respect and trust with each other. Jealousy is always around unless you dont love each other, but too much jealousy is not good it could kill you. Try to talk things openly and believe me it will works.
And lastly put God as a center of your relationship and it will last the way you want it.
2006-06-19 18:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by akjabo_1926 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealous partners do put stress on the other. And if the relationship becomes to stressful to someone, he or she tends to get out of it. Insecurity begets jealousy. It may be the fault of oneself (people who still have issues from the past) or the partner. Hopefully, true love exist or else, there's no point in staying together.
2006-06-19 17:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by rmparras 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with every relationship comes jealously hon.
you both just need to learn to trust eachother and live with it.
realationships depend on the type of people IN the relationship.
you just have to figure out what's easier for you.
GOOD LUCK!
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2006-06-19 17:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually the most jealous are cheaters. they don't trust you because they can't be trusted. stay away from the jealous ones - they are cheaters and it's always the psychos that kill their girlfriends and wives that did it out of jealousy. move on.
2006-06-19 17:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by soul patrol baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you choose boyfriends who are jealous? What is it about you that attracts people like that?
2006-06-19 17:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by byhisgrace70295 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll have to read "Venus and Mars", indeed will answer all those questions you have about relationships. Totally accurate.
2006-06-19 17:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by georgie g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋