i need help with sex?

Question

my mom caught my boyfriend and i having sex, i am 16 and i already have a baby. i now think that i am pregnant again. how do i tell her again?!?!?!

Answer 1

I think you need to think about your future and the babys future. Protection or birth control... PLZ

Answer 2

You have the right to be pro-choice and it's a sick thought to be using abortion as birth control but in this case I think it's a logical solution either that or adoption (adoption, more so). I know some people are sensitive about that whole subject. But back to the point, 16 with a baby already.

Tell your mom & do what you know is right and maintain the responsibility you already have. Not to mention if you’re that sexually active take yourself to a plan parenthood or something and get on a form of birth control. Take care of yourself!

You don't seem to be thinking about everything you have ahead of you...

You’re mom will be pissed, and then she’ll get over it. But you need to concentrate on making the right decisions from here on out. That will have a bigger impact on your life then what your mother says.

Sorry of this is crude or offensive in any way… Not my intensions

Answer 3

Seems like some people just don't learn! What were you thinking? You are too young to have a baby, let alone two. You've not only ruined your own life, but you're not giving your child/children a fair start in life either. And I'm willing to bet this has greatly affected your mother's life as well. Grow up, stop worrying about sex and boys, and take responsiblity for your actions! The fact that you're afraid of telling your "mommy" says it all...you're too young, selfish, and irresponsible to be a mother. You don't "need help with sex"...you need help with "abstinance".

Answer 4

Whoa Whoa Whoa honey. You're 16 for god's sakes. You already have a BABY!! Did you not learn the first time that protection needs to be used. You already told your mom once right? So telling her a second time shouldn't be rough. But if I were you I would take a test first. And honey, close your legs if you're not gonna be careful.

Answer 5

Just tell her - if she caught you, she may not be surprised. Telling your mom is actually a small issue for you - Don't overlook the matter of becoming more responsible, which is a much more significant matter. Save adult matters for adulthood. At sixteen you should still be enjoying the rest of your childhood, not trying to be mother of two. Learn to Just Say NO.

Answer 6

She probably already knows. 16 with one and another possible on the way. Sweetie slow down so can still get your pleasure but be smart about it. YOu need birth control also and use condoms... Its too much out there to be caught and all you have to make the right decisions. SLow your role.... mother should already know if she dont she needs to open her eyes

Answer 7

First of all, you need to start using your head a little bit. Ask yourself these questions: How do I tell her without hurting her? How would I feel if my child was pregnant at such a young age? And another thing, there are these wonderful little things called condoms available at ANY Planned Parenthood, OBGYN, and Wal-Mart. And don't give me that crap about "They don't feel right". If you care for your mother or your current child, you WILL use them. If you're old enough to have sex, you're old enough to be responsible.

Answer 8

well did you have sex

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cause if you didn't you couldn't be pregnant

well
you need to tell her that you are sorry
don't avoid it by lying just tell her

and then say well maybee god wanted me to have a son or daughter you know women get pregnant for a reason


my mom had me when she was 14 so i was a big problem to her but her parents understood and she didn't have an abortion.

hope this helps

Answer 9

What the hell you didn´t learn the first time.Are you on birth control?Dis you at least wear a condom.Dam you are stupid how are you going to have 2 kids before you are even an adult.God I ´m sure on your 18th birthday your going to find out your are pregnant again.Are they at least from the same father.Are you a slut?

Answer 10

After catching you in the act, I doubt she'll be all that surprised. She's sure going to be disappointed in you, though....why in the world weren't you on birth control? If you think having one baby is a handful, wait until you have two.

I advise you to tell her pronto! She can help you decide what to do.

Answer 11

First off did you ever hear of BIRTH CONTROL?? You know there's clinic's out there that will GIVE YOU FREE CONDOMS!!!Why dont you try keeping your legs closed... Your too young to have two kids... I'd like to talk to your parents about letting you have your first baby in the first place... If you were my kid I would kick your ***... What you didnt learn from the first time you had a kid... God parents are so ******* dumb these days... They let there dumbass kids get away with everything... Your ******* lucky your not my kid... I would ******* kick your DUMBASS!!!