2006-06-19 10:07:46 · 16 answers · asked by miss lead 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we are high school sweethearts and we were together for 5 years before he cheated the first and I took him back. And here we are again, he has cheated again. I never thought i would be in this position again. I am a strong forgiving person but is this going to be a trend or could it stop? Dont want to leave him but dont know what to do to prevent this from happening again. Please help!
2006-06-19 11:36:14 · update #1
I think someone could love you and still cheat on you. There is something wrong in the relationship though. Something missing. For someone to cheat they are looking for some kind of gratification or self worth. Sometimes they may feel trapped and they just stay in the relationship for stability but they may truly wish to be single again. Also if they have done it to you twice and you forgave them the first time then they probably think that they can "have their cake and eat it too", because you have allowed them to do so.
2006-06-19 10:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by lorileigh 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You better smart-up, because you are being played the fool.
Unless you like being cheated on, then stay with him. You either stay with a cheater or leave the cheater.
And he will continue to cheat on you even if you tell him not too. He will cheat on you even if you cry and beg him not too. He will cheat on you even when he is claiming to love you.
THAT IS NOT LOVE. Read that line again.
But hey, if you like being cheated on and made the fool then stay with this kind and loving man who respects and adores you so much. He sounds like a great guy. NOT.
Get in or get out, but don't complain about him cheating on you. I have a saying, "Don't sh*& where you eat".
2006-06-19 10:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by You got Moxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't missing anything, obviously they are missing it all. You are most likely with someone that is not ready to settle down. They may say that they love you, however they want to see who else they can love in the mean time. I am a man, and I believe that if you are a real man you should be honest, and if you are not willing to commit say it, because if you know that he has cheated on you and you sleep with him, you might catch something in today's world. Good Luck!
2006-06-19 10:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by jman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even in the event that they did appear precisely the equal, being together with her sister might make your spouse consider sooooooo betrayed by way of each you and her sister. It might create a wide variety of disorders, now not simply among the 3 of you, however inside the loved ones as a complete... go away good adequate on my own. If you don't seem to be convinced together with your spouse... deliver her a divorce - for her possess sake.. and uncover the following lady someplace a long way clear of her - now not in her loved ones.. now not one in all her peers..
2016-08-28 09:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by darland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people use the term, "I Love you" as a conveinience tool. Obviously this person in question doesnt know the true meaning of love, and you need to move on. I wouldnt have been around for the second time!!!!!!!
2006-06-19 10:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry love but you're not the one. I think you have answered your own question in that you say you have forgive once. But question why you should forgive twice. My advice is move on. The only thing you will be missing is a serial cheater.
2006-06-19 10:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he doesn't love you. He is more concerned with sex than love.
If he loved you- he would have respect for you and not have sex with you until you two were married.
He is tom catting around and exposing you to God only know what diseases- like the virus that causes cervical cancer.
If you stay with him, you should seek counseling on why you think so little of yourself.
2006-06-19 10:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by Mommy_to_seven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you are NOT the one missing anything...HE is!!!
I've found that when a guy cheats, it normally has nothing to do with his wife/girlfriend. He is the one that has the unresolved issues.
Stay true to yourself, honey and get out before he causes any more damage!
Be careful!
2006-06-19 10:15:02 · answer #8 · answered by dubbledee71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That person doesn't know what love is and you deserve better. Move on and find someone who know the meaning of love and how to show it. You'll be happier in the long run.
2006-06-19 10:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bc they tell you they love you. that does not mean they truely and sincerely love you. words are words, but actions are what speak louder. my guy tells me that too, and we have had probs w biotches too. but just bc he says it does not mean he means it or that i beleive him. that's why i say to prove it if you mean it. words are nothing in that department. and the guy knows u'll stay there so he'll keep telling you he loves you so he has someone to fall back on. get it? ull always be there in his eyes. you have been there thus far, right? and maybe there is just one or so things ur missing that he finds in other females. maybe just bc they'll giv it up. i bet u tha ones he cheat w were whores, right? at least they were in ur eyes! did you go after them? bc it takes 2 to tango hunny!
2006-06-19 10:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by kkaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋